ED caused by deathgrip

hello, i'm 17 with pretty much ED. i've been watching porn for a very long time, and i stopped for 3 months now, it's really easy for me not to watch porn, (i still look at vids and pics of my gf that we record, but i don't consider that porn). my issue is that i've been always masturbating without lube 1-3 times per day gripping very tight, and when i try to have sex with my gf my penis doesn't stay hard. the only way it stays hard is if i focus really hard while she is jerking me off. that's the only way i can cum.

i tried v1agra and it made me really hard, but it still took me 45 mins + to cum. which is too long especially when i just want a quick handjob or smth. sometimes it event takes me more than 1 hour. and that's with a 10/10 girl, like the best of the best. i can't even imagine doing it with some ugly ass one lol.

also when i use a condom i LITERALLY FEEL NOTHING.


i've come to the conclusion that my ED is caused by deathgrip, i tried NoFap but it's impossible for me, i've been trying for over a year, and i just can't do it.

besides, my issue is not fapping, but the fact that my penis lost sensitivity, what i'm doing now is fapping ONLY every Saturday using plenty of lube and doing it very slowly to simulate a vagina.

now i came here for tips. do you guys have any? (except going on a long streak of NoFap. which i'll never do because no matter how hard i try i'll fail. besides i have a girlfriend, so i'm not gonna tell her "honey we can't fuck i'm on nofap" lmao.

also, the last few weeks my penis got more sensitive fapping only once at week, and i have a very important question.

is it bad if i cum without touching my penis? basically i just lie in bed for about 1 hour and fantasize about stuff, and eventually, i have a really intense orgasm. usually happens after i don't fap for 2-3 days. could that be bad? or is it good because i'm not touching myself so my penis is "healing"?

what about "stimulating prostate" i've read people with ED do that and it helps, is there any side effects when it comes to the penis? like not being able to get hard if u get used to stimulate my prostate? my girlfriend often asks me to put a finger in my ass but i never accepted, but i know it feels good. what do you guys think? i just want my damn penis to work.


thank you for taking your time to read this. i REALLY need your help, sadly ED caused by porn and deathgrip isn't a medical condition that is recognized. BUT IT SHOULD. it ruined my damn sex life. how was i, a 11 year old boy jerking off for the first time supposed to know how to do it right? (lube etc)

 

how is your testosterone level?

 

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could you tell us what they told you and what they gave you at the hospital? it's very interesting for me, cause i wanted to go to the hospital but hesitated since they would probably say that my problem isn't because of the death grip or porn.