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90 Days!

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by koe06f, Jun 14, 2019.

  1. koe06f

    koe06f Fapstronaut

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    So, I finally made it, my reboot is over!

    I managed 90 Days without porn, masturbation, and orgasms (excluding two or three wet dreams).

    I feel like I have a more healthy relationship with the people around me. I still catch myself staring at women's assets now and then and I don't like it, but I feel a lot more (mental) freedom compared to when I started.

    It was definitely worth it.

    I'll try to stay away from porn, but I'll allow myself to masturbate now and then to release the pressure. I've had times when it would be really hard to focus on something else than a sexual fantasy and I feel that masturbating might help. Or maybe not. Or if I end up in a relationship, sex with my partner will do it. But I'll definitely avoid getting in a relationship just for the sex. Been there before and it's not worth it.

    That's pretty much all I had to say. I wanted to tell you that for me it's been worth it. Keep working on improving yourself and don't let setbacks make you give up!
     
  2. CYelllow

    CYelllow Fapstronaut

    Congratulations on your reboot! That's no small feat. Wishing you much success beyond your 90 days!
     
  3. I cant wait to get back there, good on you! Take care of the fantasies and don't let your guard down yet would be my only advice. I reached 100+ days a couple times, thought i had it beat, and fell hard.
    Good work!
     
  4. ssha6451

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  5. dontnutbrotha

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    Amazing job friend hope to someday make your feat!
     
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  6. vxlccm

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    Excellent work. At certain times of day, the counters are twinning :)

    Glad you've been here. Stay faithful!
     
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  7. Mohi1234

    Mohi1234 Fapstronaut

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    no man , do not back to mastrubate in previous times i reached more than 50 days without porn and mastrubating and i decided to back only to mastrubating ,but what happened is that i returned back to that shit again and it took me 9 month's to back to NoFap . this was the hardest relapse i got. i saw the benefit and i relapsed with shity life , back to procrastinating , loss of confidence

    mastrubating is less severe when not with porn but sooner or later you will back to porn , this is the route that your brain is trying to decive you with .
     
  8. Ferns

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    What advice would you give us to accomplish such feats ?
     
  9. Congratulations on 90 days!
     
  10. jackhroub

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    Good job dude :), my god I really wish I do the 90 days, wish me luck all!
    Edit: just one thing, don't masturbate again, you don't need that, do some habits instead of it, masturbating can lead you to porn again, be careful brother
     
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  11. stoneyman22

    stoneyman22 Fapstronaut

    good job man, that's great you were able to fully reboot. If you can share any tips for the rest of us it'd be greatly helpful and appreciated.
     
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  12. huyit888

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    i also give up it about 2 hours
     
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  13. stoneyman22

    stoneyman22 Fapstronaut

    thats pretty good, 2-hours is more than one. keep improving brotha if u stay on track anything will soon b possible.
     
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  14. koe06f

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    Thank you all for the support! It really felt very good to have porn behind me. I felt more confident and proud of myself than before. Not sure I have any tips to give you, folks. I can just say keep trying until you get there. It's an achievement.

    Now, since someone mentioned "Stay faithful!"...

    I'm down to earth again :) I relapsed a couple of days ago. After 120 days without porn, I went out with a friend, had a couple of beers, and when I came back home felt very empty. There have also been a couple of girls around me for the past few months that have caused some frustration, so I just needed something to fill the void... So in my alcoholic stupidity and fully aware of what I was doing, I turned to porn. Not really anything serious. Not even explicit. Some wouldn't even call it porn. Just erotic pictures of strangers off the internet...

    My relapse must have lasted no more than 15 minutes, but it was one, and I wouldn't be faithful if I didn't reset my counter back to 0.

    So I'm starting again. I don't think I've lost anything. I'm happy to be off the high horse, but my goal is to get clean again. I liked the feeling of self confidence and resilience that I got out of kicking the habit. I know I can do it again, and if so, you folks can do it too. I really want to stop drinking as it dents my constitution and willpower. And I want to get to 90 days without porn again. Then 180. Then a year. And beyond.
     
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  15. stoneyman22

    stoneyman22 Fapstronaut

    good work man, the reset can be integral to growth it's all in how you look at it. Keep your head up high brotha, much love and respect.
     
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  16. ForeverChanges

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    Give it a go with no masturbation. That thing you need to release, you called it tension? That is sexual energy running through each cell of your body. Thats our treasure. Keep it. You will see giant improvements.
    Benefits come because is the way our body and mind should be. You can become a shining person, your choice bro!
     
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  17. Reborn16

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    Awesome stuff man, life gets in the way and we make poor decisions, it happens. Shrugging it off and moving forward like you are is the important part.

    I limit my drinking to just 2 max on the odd time I do drink, found it helps a lot with decisions ...and keeping my social skills in balance haha.

    Regarding the frustration with girls. Just need to take more action perhaps... I say 'just' but it's not easy. If you're having no issues getting dates then please ignore this bit, but if like me you would like to make a few improvements somewhere in your dating life - then I recommend a book called Models.
     
  18. oneotwo

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    Agree same happen to me im reach 64 days and realpse case masterbation, i know about my self now that im not strong enough so i keep the mode pmo, now im back to track
     
  19. PowerfulSRE

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    Well done mate, keep doing good work! Good luck!
     

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