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I keep looking at women

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Kurmutziku, Jun 22, 2019.

  1. ledener

    ledener Fapstronaut

    Im in the day 55 and I see that I became "much more man" in the aspects of masculinity because I feel that my testosterone is in levels which she has never ever been in my whole life (brasillian 25 years old).

    I experienced all bad feelings of a heavy wanker and Im still rebooting (I dont wqnt even to jerk off anymore, I want to be a semen saver for as long as Im able, because im loving the benefits)

    So, lets focua on your post where you say you cant stop looking girls... ME NEITHER!

    As a man, I dont think that one day I want to reach the place where I dont care to womans anymore, I want to perceive them for ever

    But

    Percepting the girl is diferent of binging/begging their attention.

    What I do now is to see that the beautyfull girl is there but I tr6 to keep doing what I waa supposed to do before she appeared. I do not turn my whole priorities to them as I used to do in the fap days.

    Congrats
     
  2. Kurmutziku

    Kurmutziku Fapstronaut

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    That is my main priority. Do everything I can to avoid looking at pics of women on social media. Will do absolutely ANYTHING else besides that. By being on NoFap, my view of women are changing everyday. I'm currently on my longest streak. It's a great feeling, learning to love life more as well.
     
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  3. LonelyStrength

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    remember what mama Boucher said: Girls are the devil !!
     
  4. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, the only woman you should look at is wife. it will make her feel good about herself.
     
  5. Obviously all in or nothing doesn't strictly apply to such a situation. Still, the benefits of a total control over your senses will still outweigh anything else. However, it doesn't necessarily mean that you won't be gaining anything from what you are presently practicing. But, since you are a mature adult, I suppose you already understand what is necessary for you. Good luck for your reboot! :)
     
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  6. What a BS statement! You wouldn't be going far into life with such an attitude, let alone a reboot. Take responsibility for your thoughts, actions and even your passions!
    Stay Strong!
    :)
     
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  7. LonelyStrength

    LonelyStrength Fapstronaut

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    Have you ever seen the movie Waterboy? it was supposed to a joke, lol, and i agree
     
  8. I see. I thought it was just another troll comment or something. :)
     
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  9. FormerFapaholic

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    Another suggestion is to avoid any click bait as well on the internet.
     
  10. newman97

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    I watched something a few months ago that talked about eye contact with women.

    It was saying something about how if you look away quick after making eye contact, the girl thinks that you aren't confident because you cannot look directly into her eyes. Now, this wouldn't be the case all of the time, and it might be true only to a small degree or even on a subconscious level to the girl, but I think there's some truth to that.

    I started, for the first time in years, to hold eye contact girls that I see for longer, just a bit longer though. I realized that in the past I'd always look away VERY fast when making eye contact. Back then I was less confident in myself and felt uncomfortable doing so. Nowadays though, I usually hold the eye contact until the girl looks away first (~1 second, max 2 seconds, and obviously not in a creepy way). I feel more confident in myself, and in doing this have gotten some smiles from girls. Most likely because they enjoy that a guy is actually looking at them directly and isn't afraid to look them in the eye.

    Sidenote: I started to try and make eye contact with everyone I pass by, to be friendly and say good morning, say hi, etc. I noticed though, especially at work, that people often times stare at the ground when passing another person. They don't seem to want to make any human connection whatsoever due to lack of confidene, social anxiety, etc. I think it's a huge issue in today's society. People aren't friendly to strangers in many instances and are afraid, to some degree, of social connection.
     

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