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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Deleted Account, Jun 24, 2019.

  1. So, my lady is super supportive. When I started this journey June 1st, I came to her with Noah Church, and used his videos to do the speaking for me. She admitted she knew I had been addicted to porn for years, but just dealt with all the effects. I'm almost a month in, and we are both surprised by the size of my penis (when I'm not flatlining) I had PMO since I was a teen. I actually never knew what my body was capable of because I was destroying it for 20 years. So, what are you guys getting from your wives, support? A hard time? Has she noticed your improved.....size? I'd like input from the married guys.
     
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  2. Nugget9

    Nugget9 Fapstronaut

    I am not married but have been together with my gf for almost 17 years. I have had P issues all through our relationship and even before. I am almost 48 years old and have been addicted to PMO since about the age of 16. My gf is very supportive and I am having O that are so intense that I never remember having this type of feeling ever. The sex is incredible and the intimacy is something I have never felt before because I never gave it a chance since I was always addicted. Good luck to you and your lady.
     
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  3. Lilla_My

    Lilla_My Fapstronaut

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    I'm not a man, but (for better or worse) married to one, and yes I've noticed the size... After quitting porn my husband fell into a long flatline with no erection at all. When he came out of it, the erection was stronger than ever before. "It" was no longer an organ, but a weapon. It feels bigger and better the harder it is, of course, as it is easier for a woman to get aroused and have an orgasm if her partner is very firm down there. If my husband manage to keep away from porn I will remain a very, very lucky and satisfied lady (mentally and physically).
     
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  4. When I confessed my PMO to my wife a few years ago, she had no idea. It was a shock. I was prepared for her to leave me (and she would have been right to do so), but she was supportive. However, we did have some very hard conversations. I never experienced any kind of physical changes, as far as I can recall. But ridding my heart and mind of P and my body of MO has indeed improved our connection with one another greatly. I hope you will continue to find the same as you remain committed to no PMO!
     
  5. Welcome to the community. My wife has been my greatest support and I don't know how I could have done this without her. Sure the size difference, because of being able to perform fully has been great and she noticed for sure, but there is so much more that has improved.
    Great to hear of your progress, keep up the good work.
     
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  6. samnf1990

    samnf1990 Fapstronaut

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    I have gotten support with my desire to change. She was hurt by the habit, but took the time to try to listen to where the habit came from, and why it was hard to quit. She (like many women) felt like it was because of some failing on her part, that she wasn't good enough, and I felt it was important for me to communicate that this is not the case. For me, there have been no changes to penis size, but I never had any PIED issues. My erections are perhaps slighly firmer, and quicker to establish (not to mention more sensitive) though. My biggest issue was that sometimes I would PMO during the day then avoid sex in the evening so I wouldn't get caught out (by taking longer to finish, not producing as much ejaculate etc). PMO was interfering with my ability to be intimate with my wife in that way. Now I am always ready for her sexually, and sex always feels great because I haven't spoiled my appetite by Ming beforehand.
     
  7. Distraught XO

    Distraught XO Fapstronaut

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    Well I've been married for almost three weeks now but in the two years I've known my wife she's been frustrated over my regular lack of libido. I've been exposed to P since age 13, PMO since 26. But now, 37 days into nofap she and I are excited about my regular random erections and how these days I'm all over her like eczema. I'm still dancing in and out of flatline, but mostly out of it, thank God, and all I need now is to see her butt clapping into the bathroom or kitchen and my soldier is saluting all over the place. Been a while since that happened to me. And yes, even when flaccid I'm definitely thicker down there, even though I've always been a respectable size.
     
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