Things to do in the Evening and at Night?

You're on it right now - this forum is a big one TBH.

Not terribly exotic but reading and taking time off the forum is another one. I do this thing of trying to finish a book before coming back on here, which takes a few days and which.. Should be about starting soon since I'm doing my 1 year challenge and it's roughly a book every couple weeks or two a month.

 

Well to start with reading if you're not a big reader I'd say anything that will get you going. I've chosen some that are maybe not everyones cup of tea but so far I've enjoyed them. In my sig is a link to the list of challenges I am doing and one of them is the reading one, so you can link over to that thread and check out a fairly long list - mostly non-fiction but a few sci-fi at the end. Recently there's a fairly big book lovers thread too..

 

Reading's been said already.
You can also try writing, maybe listening to calm music or podcasts, or making art.

 

I do meditation in the evening, it helps getting calm and focus your thoughts so your mind will be less likely to wander off towards porn. I also try to read more. For falling asleep i like to watch some starcraft2, it is interesting enough to keep my mind occupied, but not exciting enough to keep me awake, so if you can find something similar for you, it might help. Something like a audiobook would probably be better.
Writing is a great thing as well, i do my journal regularly and got a notebook for all kind of thoughts i have.