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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Lemonquack, Mar 31, 2015.

  1. Mar 31, 2015 #1
    Lemonquack

    Lemonquack Fapstronaut

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    Hi folks.
    I'm on my longest nofap stint so far and I'm confident it will continue.
    But...
    Only once in the last 2 weeks did I get a random boner. One morning I woke up. Only that one time. To me that is just not right. I know I'm probably Fukked up from to much porn and fapping but has anybody else experienced this? I'm hoping my situation will change over the weeks/months.
    Don't get me wrong-I don't want to get a boner so I can start tugging on it. I want to get one (at random) because it's the norm. It's what used to happen to me. I don't know when that stopped but it did stop sometime in the last few years.

    Does this make sense?

    Any thoughts/feedback?
     
    Lemonquack, Mar 31, 2015
    Lemonquack, Mar 31, 2015
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  2. Apr 1, 2015 #2
    PeetaMellark

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    It's too early for you to be flatlining but you're going through withdrawal.
    I was the same. I panicked when suddenly my boners stopped because as you said it doesn't seem normal.
    Others told me to not panic as it's part of the reboot process but...
    I didn't listen and I panicked so much so that I forced myself to watch porn so I had a boner, and then I relapsed... On Day 69 of a 90 day reboot.
    I was depressed for a couple of weeks...
    My advice whether you take it or not is Do. Not. Panic.
    It's part of the way we've fucked up our minds through porn.
    Although it doesn't seem normal to you, it's a normal part of the process and it will fix itself...

    Stay strong, and embrace the fact that you're not fighting urges with a raging boner... That's a more difficult process than no boner at all...
     
    PeetaMellark, Apr 1, 2015
    PeetaMellark, Apr 1, 2015
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  3. Apr 1, 2015 #3
    Lemonquack

    Lemonquack Fapstronaut

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    True. Good point. Thanks buddy.
     
    Lemonquack, Apr 1, 2015
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