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Karezza and condoms

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by +TenPercent, May 14, 2019.

  1. My immediate response as well. Well in some cultures, hanging is done. I think karezza springed from one of those tantric culture... Hindi perhaps or one of the eastern cultures. I do remember coming across it when studying the differences between western and eastern cultures. Strange that it would be mentioned in a degree programme.
     
  2. IGY

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    Thanks for your feedback @Red Dead.
     
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  3. EmmyB

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    I'm not saying it's a good thing, just arguing that love is an amazing thing and people will do a lot for those they love.
     
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  4. I agree, the thing about being circumcised is that i can easily have orgasms all day
     
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  5. I am uncercumsised and since starting NoFap, I'm way more sensitive down there, have u been experiencing the same.
     
  6. Neither a penis nor a clit are required for love ;)
    Although they definitely contribute to orgasm, which can be a major hinderance to love.

    I would consider surgically altering my penis for my partner, especially if it meant (similar to removing the clitoris) a decreased risk of orgasm or even eliminating the possibility of orgasm all together.

    This will make sense in a minute . . .

    I was at an AA meeting recently and a woman described how she couldn't wait to reach one year without drinking and had been looking forward to removing the "breathalyser" device from her car. She got into a big argument with her husband when that one year finally arrived and he insisted that she keep the device in place.
    I was deeply touched by this. Addictions are powerful. He loves her so much that he worries about her safety . . . and she loves him so much that she agreed to keep the device in place. :)

    It made me think about my device - my chastity device. I try to use it as little as possible and hope that someday I will have enough control that I won't need it. Long term use, especially 24/7 use can damage the penis, and possibly make it smaller. But if it can help me avoid orgasm, it's worth it. And if my partner wanted me to wear it all the time so that she can rest easy, I would. I would do that for love.

    Western culture places so much emphasis on sex and orgasm. But any supposed benefits that they offer pale in comparison to the healing and sustainable benefits of bonding and love.
     
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  7. Yes, initially I experienced dramatic increases in sensitivity down there.
    But . . . I don't struggle with that so much anymore. My experience has shown me that the biggest contributor to the sensitivity that I experience is the heightened arousal that comes from edging. My whole addiction revolved around arousal and, ultimately, orgasm, as virtually everything I did was too "add fuel to the fire" to build myself up for what I hoped would be the biggest and most satisfying orgasm ever.
    So, if I keep generating that arousal but give up masturbation and give up orgasm . . . I become like a ticking time-bomb of arousal that will go off at the slightest touch. :eek:
    Looking at porn is an obvious form of edging, but if you really want to stop the orgasms and curb that hypersensitivity then you need to stop all forms of arousal generating behaviours including fantasy and overindulging in sugar or caffeine.
     
  8. Lad... eastern culture is traditionalist. Plus with the China ban in the past, that really spooked a lot of persons. Overpopulation is not really measured by quantity of persons in an area, but rsther the amount of resources the area produces versus consumed. Basically, the eastern countries, like asia, where the main income is from farming and not Oil and gas, as we Western countries have, do not see the need to have "pleasure" which leads to reproduction. They have to manage their population so to speak. Africa is a better example.

    The point, each culture views sex differently. This is not a wholistic view, but based on research found in a text. Let's go live in the himalayas.
     
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  9. eoptda

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    i am extremely sensitive as well. i was even thinking of getting circumcised, but im glad i didnt. you can definitely learn to control it. but it takes patience, willingness and time (all of which you might have since youre on this site already :D). just understand that fundamentally theres nothing wrong with you (as far as physical attributes are concerned). ive had situations where i come before even putting in (mostly from not having enough experience and the condom making it even worse by being too tight) and at the same time being able to go on seemingly for as long as i want.

    even this one session at the beginning i felt like im about to o just from a couple seconds of entering but kept taking it slow. at that point on the one hand i felt hopeless and thought if i ever going to be normal and how the hell other guys do it and was considering trying all sorts methods from herbs to surgery to help myself but on the other hand i knew its all in my head and i kept my cool and did it slow. the session started from being able to barely dip in the tip for a couple seconds to being able to do full length trusts a couple 10s of minutes later.

    even if it about-to-cum feeling doesnt go away, dont panic. and dont cum. keep trying, eventually you will learn it and youll definitely enjoy it. it took years for me to get myself used to cum in matter of seconds, naturally it takes a lot of effort to reverse it. :d

    idk if you have experienced similar problems, just wanted to say that being sensitive is not a bad thing.
     
  10. Yea caffeine deffinetly increases sensitivity. I think I'm going to stop drinking so much of it.
     
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  11. Why circumcised? Surely you kill thousands of nerve endings mutilating a penis like that...
     
  12. ledener

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    I'm circuncised and yes, we get a diferent skin in the grand that makes us take more time, but I dont think it bad because a very sensitive boy may have too many issues with timing also.
     
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  13. EmmyB

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    Circumcised makes the penis less sensitive so the guy's less likely to climax. Also means there's direct contact between the glans and the vagina.
     
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  14. As a (circumcised) and sensitive teenager I had many accidental orgasms and started masturbating frequently to try to become less sensitive and avoid those embarrassing incidents.
    I have a smaller penis than most guys and one theory of mine is that I have the same number of nerve endings as other men, but concentrated in a smaller surface area (i.e. like a clitoris)
    Or maybe I just have really bad anxiety …

    Anyway, I have now only had one orgasm / emission in the last 193 days and I am really, really grateful that my parents had me circumcised! :)

    That sounds like a double win to me! :cool:

    Of course I haven’t had sex in a long time and am worried that I might orgasm accidentally when I finally find someone willing to attempt karezza. So condoms might be a good way to get started, but ultimately more direct contact and no orgasm sounds heavenly. Truly.
     
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