Why is NOFap criticised ?

I don't why people say it's bullshit. There is no right or wrong with nofap or masturbation. Either focus on the pleasure of PMO, or focus on the pain of PMO. Focus on the negative of nofap, or the positive of nofap. See how you feel when you look back after a long period of time. I personally don't want to remember my previous year as remembering all the porn I fapped to that did nothing for my life. I would rather remember the positive comments on here and have done something in the real world.

 

People act as if NoFap forces people into it. It doesn't, I reckon around 90% of people on this site stumbled upon this site when hitting rock bottom. The site is there to help and you can leave when you want

 

Why not?

Spoiler

No matter what something will be criticized. Just like we criticize porn users for being bad/toxic, they will accuse us of being toxic.

 

Because some people are ignorant, and dont understand how much time PMO takes from our lives

 

For the most part, people have a bad time with masturbation so they do have views about it that are close to shaming, but this is not the only philosophy that nofap has to offer. Other people cite other causes for excessive masturbation. I think the reason nofap gets a lot of criticism is because it's easy to make fun of people who are brave enough to admit to having sexual problems. That said, to someone who doesn't have the same problem as I'm guessing 40% of nfers, excessive masturbation or urges that disrupt life, it can seem like nofap is anti masturbation, which is not at all the case.

 

NoFap is bull shit, it shames masterbation and limits sexual positivity

 

who cares why its criticized? if you know that its the truth, why you need to listen to the noise around ?

 

I disliked this post while floating upside down.

 

Hit the nail on the head there. That's all there is to know!

 

The site I think is also ahead of it's time. Fingers crossed it manages to gain more attention in coming years

 

porn industry trolls 100%

 

The whole NoFap has one critically important fundation, it's this universal law: the more pleasure one seeks, the more unhappy one gets. Don't we all want to be happy? It's why we're here. The only thing these people opposing nofap have all in common is probably that they haven't reached that stage of addiction where they become depressed because of it. They don't understand the connection or don't want to know. Someone who says masturbation doesn't negatively affect them is either still addicted and doesn't want to change since that would mean they would have to give up pleasure, and/or refuses to acknowledge that masturbation and pornography are harmful.

 

You pretty much said it (almost) all. Not only will people who have lost their self-control, are heavily into their PMO-habits trying to defend it until it has become too heavy of a burden. There are also many bitter feminists, SJWs, white knight men and similar who hate to see other men succeed in life and in that sense there are fewer things more annoying and disturbing to them than men who develop good self-control, regain their masculinity and become normal men. Because they know that their fake blue-pill world will crumble fast when more men start to become men again and stand up for themselves and what they believe is right.
Also, many people who have never abstained from touching themselves for more than a few days during their entire adult lives simply don't know what benefits come with the PMO-abstinence because they have never tried it in the first place.

 

The other day I had an unpleasent situation with an idiot here saying my counter was fake because I said masturbation itself is neither bad or good. I do not blame people for thinking we all are like that.

 

I like to know if those who write negativity about nofap if they done 90 days no pmo . Nofap works it's biology and a million + years of evolutionary memory in our DNA . When you fap to porn it tricks your body into thinking you have mated and you hormones start secreting as such. Don't fap and you will notice every cell in your body will change to attract a mate . Our brain is not as smart as our body sytem and its ability to change without out our permission . All you have to do is input nofap and your bodies system will react and change . This is not intellectual reaction from our brains it's much more complex than our brains . The good thing it's easy you just commit to nofap and sit back rellax and take note to all the new things that happen when you stop faping. Yes you can trick yourself into thinking that nofap is not true but your body can not be tricked that it isn't .

 

Most people know, they are PMO-addicted. So they feel uncomfortable to get rid of their addiction.

I see it the same way.

I will not make enemies if I ignore them.

Great answer. I agree completely.

 

People are ignorant when it comes to addiction. You might as well say AA shames drinking and limits beverage positivity.

 

-People don't understand it. If you have a succesfull life while faping/porno every day/many times in the week, why while you even think the nofap benefits/cure it's effective/life changing ?

-People don't like being pointed at. If you enjoy masturbation and porno but you KNOW this is a addiction, but still don't wanna change it you while rarely be objective about the guys who put the truth right on your face, don't you think ?

At least this is the two main reason why many people look down on nofap. In my opinion .

 

It's way easier to wallow in a disgusting habit than it is to put the work in and sacrifice to be better. Everybody knows it's wrong to be masturbating and looking at some foul porn videos and they are ashamed deep down no matter how they try to present it.

Seeing someone try to do or actually succeeding doing something you're too weak, lazy and cowardly to try makes people feel inadequate.

Some people are so brainwased by this morally bankrupt society that maybe they feel its "sex positive" to watch 2 people, or three or four people engage in some staged un natural sex act and spend all night fapping to it. Some actually think this sick stuff is healthy and treat anyone who wants to do better like a Jehovas Witness.

 

Very interesting replies here. Thanks everyone.