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PIED while watching porn ?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by The old Warrior, Jul 14, 2019.

  1. The old Warrior

    The old Warrior Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    most of the people have PIED only in the real sexual relationship while they have strong erection during porn watching.

    I'm little bit confusing because I have PIED even during porn watching even before start rebooting ?

    Does any one have PIED with porn like me ?
     
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  2. Nuallann

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    So, are you unable to get an erection with porn, or do you lose it while masterbating to porn?
     
  3. Uruvug

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    It happens to me too. Sometimes while watching porn it takes a bit of time to get an erection and when I do, I can lose it quick if I lose my focus a bit. I know what everybody will say: "stay away from porn forever!", but I have attempted this several times and I have not managed to eliminate it entirely. I can't live with the thought of eliminating it forever - it's just so fucking tempting to have it there and never watch it. So instead what I've done is to allow myself to watch a bit of porn once a month or so - Only one time and that's it, and instead of jumping from video to video, try instead to find a single good video and get more immersed on that one video. That way I feel less anxious knowing that I will get to watch porn eventually if I just wait some more days, but it will be spread apart enough so that it does not constitutes a habit, also giving me enough time in between to re-sensitize to real sex. I have found that by doing this I get a lot more satisfaction from a porn video, as well as from real sex, when before I used to watch scene after scene and it was hard to get turned on to that same high level. When watching porn after a long period, it is almost like if you were watching it for the first time again, not quite, but you know what I mean. There is some regained sensitivity. I must say though that after doing that I get strong urges to watch it again the next few days, but I just tell myself that I will watch it again in a month and it gives me some relief. I know many of you will not approve of this, but I find that it might work better for me, at least knowing that I can continue to watch it. Anyways I will continue trying this method and see if there are any positive results.
     
  4. The old Warrior

    The old Warrior Fapstronaut

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    it needs long focus on the porn and using my imagination during watching to get 60% erection, after all of that it is very easy to lose it !!
     
  5. The old Warrior

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    I think we are in the same issue. when you get an erection. How is it ? strong or soft ?.
    Regard to your way, I think it will not help much. I'm not attracted too much to the porn right now, I don't know why ?
     
    Last edited: Jul 16, 2019
  6. Uruvug

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    Well it got to the point where my erections were very weak even with porn, and it was hard to find a video that gave me any significant arousal. Now though, I think I have improved a bit. I can get a powerful erection in the morning for 5 to 10 minutes without using any porn, but the problem is that after those initial minutes, it starts to get less and less consistent where it can be hard one second and softer the next, not to mention that this is only very early in the morning because late at night it is a lot harder to achieve that. Sometimes when I am still in bed, about to get up I get a morning wood, but it goes away by the time I get out of bed. I am seeing some small improvements but nothing too crazy yet.

    I believe that the problem (at least for me) is not so much in the porn itself, but in the way that I and most other people watch it. When you are having sex with a girl, there is just that one girl, maybe two if you're having a threesome (wink), but in porn you have the freedom to change from video to video and from scene to scene within each video to get to the more spicy parts. This creates a constant need for switching your attention in our brains. So the arousal only last a few seconds until it dies out and you need another spike of arousal from a different scene. So when you are with a single girl, you might get aroused the first few seconds, but then you lose it because your brain is used to constantly shifting visual stimulation. I know, this has been repeated a thousand times in this forum, but it makes so much sense. However, I believe that by limiting porn to something like once per month only(if you can cut it out for good that's probably better but probably not entirely necessary). And when you do watch it, stop switching from scene to scene, just pick a video from the first 20 thumbnails you see and stick to that video and stop constantly clicking to move it back and forth. Just try to enjoy the scene. It can be very difficult at first because you might feel bored and you'll want to click on another but here is where you need some discipline to fight that urge. it does get a lot easier with time. Even better is to just use your imagination. But you gotta do the same in your head. Instead of switching from thought to thought of different girls, just stick with one girl in your mind, preferably one that you know in real life that you like, and stick with that girl for as much as you can. Relax and just enjoy. None of that rushed shit and quick hand movement, no, just relax and enjoy.

    With that said, don't pay much attention to me because I haven't cured my problem so what the fuck am I doing giving advice, but anyways that's what I am doing and I am seeing some small improvements. I am just sharing my method in case someone finds it helpful in any way.

    Cheers,
    Uruvug
     
  7. Brown Boy

    Brown Boy Fapstronaut


    yes i hv same prblem as u @The old Warrior and cant get erection without any physical stimulation even with porn. i can easily lose erection if i lose focus or stop my hand.
     

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