Humiliation Fetish and Cross Dressing Addiction

First things first: Stop stealing clothes from laundry,stop Findom asap they aren't even real Dominatrix's,stop telling every day people in your life about your fetish. A therapist would tell you if it is consensual, no one is being harmed,nothing illegal is going on,and if your financial situation is not out of control than go forward. Now I do not share your fetish,but I have had a spanking fetish forever. Most real Dominatrix's will indulge your fantasy for a price in a safe environment. Obviously do research on the lady you choose first,make sure her reviews are solid.

 

It isn't like nicotine or alcohol. It's part of your brain that sexually excites you. A therapist would most likely have you accept it and practice in a safe environment. I am a masochist, I like to be spanked,caned,whipped. I went to a therapist that deals with fetishes. I was told it was ok as long as it was consensual. I was encouraged to disclose to my wife and get her to accept rather than go behind her back.

 

I hope my thread can help. But if you've done it for real it can cause severe mental damage. www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/my-cure-for-anxiety-femdom-findom-humiliation-and-sissy-porn-addiction.244554/

 

I've never experienced those kind of things so I cannot tell you what worked for me. I hope someone will come and provide you specific advises. However, you are probably experiencing mental disorder caused by intensive P watching. Many guys have reported to look at gay P although there are not gay. Maybe the same mechanisms are involved in your issue.

Don't cross the boundary. Try to rationalize your behavior. When you wants to be humiliated, try to tell yourself that you do not really want it as you will regret it right after ! Anyway stay strong.