Why do married women cheat

Why do married men cheat ?

There a probobly as meany awnswers as there a ppl who cheat.

 

Man or woman I think it is going to depend on their life situation.

 

The title of this post is wrong, biassed and sexist.Why SOME women cheat.
The use of our language says a lot about how we think and see things in life. If you do that kind of generalization means you need to continue rebooting and rewiring your brains until you feel how everyone deserves respect from a start. The only people who dont deserve my respect are those who dont respect others. You man are doing something great -Nofap-. Thats why we are all here. Dont let ego get in the way.

 

Some women just like to flirt and that's it, they find it fun.

 

He is just a high value man ending up with a lot of women getting attracted to him and therefore opportunities to cheat. And this of course introduces jealousy in lesser lucky people who then go spewing vitriol.

The reason why people cheat is because they get away it and many of them regularly enter relationships without being attracted to the partner. Instead they get many other (usually material) advantages out of it and then look for other mates to fill the gap.

 

This article sums it up beautifully:

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=web&cd=&ved=0ahUKEwjd9MKB58rjAhUHzaQKHffCDWAQzPwBCAM&url=https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-women-really-want_b_5295735&psig=AOvVaw2_6fv1CRltsPDA2cBuIdsz&ust=1563963184594197

Women needs to be desired. In the beginning, a man is like a male bird; he shows off his bright feathers, his strength, his beauty and his passion for his lady; he builds her a nest, sing to her and doesn't miss an opportunity to cuddle her and woo her.

Then, after a while, unlike the male bird, he stops validating her, he starts to treat her like a maid, he barely looks up when she enters the room, he goes fat, stop caring for his hygiene, he kiss her like she was his grandma and never tells her she is beautiful. He forgets her birthday and sit with his pants down watching porn while she cleans his mess and deals with his children. He somehow thinks he is the only man on the planet...

... Until other men comes around. They look at his wife with desire. She no longer feels old, unattractive and dead around them, quite the opposite - she feels alive, passionate, seen and wanted. These males take care of themselves physically and emotionally, and more so, they wanna meet her needs, quench her thirst. Some of these guys know all the tricks in the book and are just hanging around waiting for the bored housewives and mistreated girlfriends to show up. They offer a shoulder to cry on and more so. And some women just can't resist this...

... But most can. Most women don't cheat. Most women have the tools and the maturity to deal with their issues that doesn't involve extramarital affairs.

 

Societal degradation & poor self image sums it up. Blaming the "other" person for one's actions means that person missed the mark entirely and will likely repeat their cheating ways. If unhappy, if miserable and un-fufilled in an relationship, the only right thing to do is to end the relationship, no matter how difficult or how hard; it serves to help both in the long run.

Societal degradation: There are reason why certain things are frowned upon and others valued. Virtues when displayed create an individual who is pleasant and fosters a creative and positive presence in the world around him/her. There are (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Truthfulness, Faithfulness, Self Control.)- These are societal morals because they are valued & contribute positively to a stable community and themselves, they need no religion they are self evident truths.
Likewise with the opposite. Vice's are degrading to a society and an individual. Many people subconsciously crave degradation or believe they deserve it, yet get upset when they have to face the music of their actions. These are (Lust*, Pride, Envy, Greed, Laziness, Wraith, Gluttony.)- These are societal vices because they harm and erode a community and themselves, degrading it. They need no religion they are self evident truths.
Today we live in a society that is infatuated with glorifying vices. They are in almost every news article, every tv show, every radio song, every magazine. Not only are people encouraged to act on these things but many do not even know what is "good" and what is "bad" for them anymore.. they simply have no clue.
This my friends, is societal degradation. And it has repeated itself many times over in many different cultures. Ancient Greece, Rome, Babylon, Egypt etc. We being to see the polarizing effect it has today with ULTRA conservatives and ULTRA liberals, who are more alike in their extremism than they are different. There are many gray areas in this world where the answers don't have a definitive black and white solution. But no matter how someone or a many someone's twist it, vices and virtues remain the same. Not because of an individual's choice (oh i'll keep lust but leave greed), but because their inherit nature remains the same regardless of a person's relationship to it.

 

Time erodes most relationships. It's rare to find a couple that lust each other after 25 years of marriage.

 

If you flirt with comitted wonen you're part of tye problem qnd it's degenerate behavior.

If you knowingly have sex or emotional affairs with comitted or married women, you should be very ashamed of yourself.

 

comon man, we're not in the church.

 

So true, I have had married women flirt with me and I turn and walk I don't need that in my life I am not rude but I leave when I see the signs, sadly some have even invited me over to there house when there husbands and kids are away I flat tell them no way am I NOT messing around with a married women. I have never regretted saying no and walking away from married women sadly there are people looking for that thing that's how violent domestic situations occur husband catches wife gets a ball bat or a gun and well everyone sees the news stories from time to time to know what happens.

 

I went to the church and learned that priests can be really punchable people, or at least that priest.

 

They're not fulfilling their divine intended and biologically programmed role as an help meet, and housekeeper, ideally to their own husband. They've been deceived by the devil, maybe into searing their conscience, following wicked immoral constructs with modern worldly trends rather than God's plan for them. Sexual revolution, so called "liberation" of women actually from a godly providing secured structure, "free love" and "sex education" from Marx and Kinsey and devil worshippers got them lost in that disgusting matrix.

 

Not really, I learned to trust the people around me that love me.

 

Tbh if a man is so low to knowingly sleep with a married woman, getting hurt or killed by the husband is fair game, the husband should not get prosecuted.

 

I don't condone violence even though they probley diserve it ,because if you at it this way who loses THE MAN who wins THE WOMEN her husband gets prosecuted at sent away for a long time just because she cant keep her marital vows and then after your sent away she goes off to some other dudes bed while your in concrete cell waiting for parole hearing if ever .IT SUCKS AND IT IS NOT RIGHT , BUT MENS RIGHTS HAVE BEEN THROWN UNDER THE BUS FOR YEARS. I will add this there are good women out there and not all are this way and there some low men out there as well . The law seems to bend for the low women who use people

 

Yes, the law is stupid, if someone gets cheated on, especially in his/her own house, he/she should have the right to maim or kill the other person.

 

The mindset of physical punishment is based on seeing women as property to be bargained between men. Under no other circumstances violent or non-violent punishment makes any sense. Now the woman, who is the property of no one, has the law on her side: She decides when to cheat and with no-fault divorce it's her legal right to do so.

 

Lol, no fault divorce is a degenerate joke. She is the property of her husband as he is her property.

Marriage is a very important social contact, there is literally no other contract that gets even close to the magnitude of marriage but out of which you can just leave with no repercussions.