Change your shoulds to Musts

I was lost a few years ago and I was lost for a long time. I did nofap before Nofap.com existed and each time learnt more and more. I eventually came to the truth - which is that a reboot and then a rewire is the only real way to do it. Like any other addiction you need a clean break from it to really see it for what it is/was. I know that 'edging' and masturbation without P is like an alcoholic smelling the beer or having a little taste, it is dangerous and you will never be free. I have upset a couple of people on here when I have told them it is like there are two types of Nofap, the real Nofap - a reboot and rewire, then there is this diluted Nofap where people on here are still even debating ways to cut corners or 'cheat'. It is actually a lot easier on the mind to quit it all together. To keep teasing your brain and renewing the bad pathways in your mind is a disaster. I want people who have Rebooted to advise people new to Nofap on this thread, let the Knowledge help people reach a better understanding sooner. How can we help the people new or learning about Nofap to realize this quicker and change their shoulds into Musts?

 

I knew you would get it Edward, you are a real one my friend.

 

That's right, I have done just as you, I read, learnt, read, learnt. Knowledge is power, I guess it is a learning process and its down to an individual, still it upsets me to know there are guys who are in desperate need for change, but have the wrong mind set to get well. They said - you can't save everyone - they were right.

 

Wow, I like how you have simplified it brother

 

The rewire after abstaining for around 2 to 3 months(different for everyone, sometimes longer) is important. Its very simple - so you have Rebooted, you no longer have any urges and M and P are alien to your mind and you will see them as gross. Then the Rewire, after around 3 months of Nofap your testosterone drops off and you may become a little teary and passive, this is normal. To Rewire you simply start dating or go to places where you can find a good woman, like group therapy or drama groups etc... you get talking, you like her, you date ... its time. Explain to her what you have been doing and that it is probably the reason she is attracted to you in the first place. I said ''There is a reason you think I am different to other guys you have met'' I said ''so you want to have sex, but listen I have not had sex in months and I am likely to bust my nut quicker than a lightening strike LoL, but teach me how to make love again'' and after a weeks practice I was, not bragging, but I was the best lover I had ever been. That is a Rewire brother. To have sex after you have disconnected M and P from the equation is a Rewire. Just sex with someone that cares about you and along the route you get a host of other incredible benefits, for me I train hard so I was/am in peak physical condition - there is a reason boxers are abstinent for weeks before a fight. After 2 weeks of holding onto your power the unused semen is redirected back into your bloodstream as your body keeps producing semen. This semen in your bloodstream is like a 24 hour protein shake, it has minerals, vitamins and proteins that - well its got all the ingredients to make a baby, a human life, so you can image there is a lot of great stuff in there. When you hear Fapstronauts talking about women staring at them, when you hear guys saying they feel awesome, when they look radiant, its the semen being used up in the bloodstream and testosterone burning off fat and building muscles. My eyesight is ridiculous at the moment too, I read the team sheet at a local football match from 5 metres away and as I went through who was playing my uncle said ''You are not reading that A4 paper from there, are you serious?!'' he went and checked and came back shaking his head and said ''You have the eyes of a Hawk''. A Rewire is heaven, to be free and to feel content in your life and building your dreams.