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My Flaccid ejaculation Problem

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Beloxxi, Jul 20, 2019.

  1. Beloxxi

    Beloxxi Fapstronaut

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    I' m a virgin, I've never had sex before. On the eve of my presumed first sex before I could insert I was already gushing out I felt embarrassed and ashamed. I know this isn't normal the few people I talked to said i was over excited that was why it happened that way. To be honest deep down I don't think that is the reason. I always "M" very fast with a flaccid D without "P" most times it takes just 5 or 6strokes and am done. Sometimes times I just watch "p" and one stroke am done. It's embarrassing because right now I feel bad about sex cause I feel I won't be able to last up to 30secs. What do I do? Cause my body is used to releasing without getting hard and one touch on my "D" things start flying.
     
  2. SaveTheSeedofLife

    SaveTheSeedofLife Fapstronaut

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    That can be the case, it has happen to me before.
     
  3. SaveTheSeedofLife

    SaveTheSeedofLife Fapstronaut

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    You suffer from Premature ejaculation, which is more of a metal state than anything. Doing NoFap may make things a little worse until your brain rewires and normalizes how fast you ejaculate based on stimuli. I say a lil worse because you might get so horny that you might come on yourself in public just by looking and enjoying what you see, unless it already started to happen. Your brain will adjust and your penis will desensitize and go back how it suppose to be. It use to happen to me, Took me a while and the embarrassment of cumming in my underwear, I had to wear 2 underwears to make sure my semen does not seep through. Its a condition and you might wanna see a therapist for that too since it can affect your self esteem.
     
  4. Beloxxi

    Beloxxi Fapstronaut

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    Damn!!! I've gotten myself into a big problem
     
  5. SaveTheSeedofLife

    SaveTheSeedofLife Fapstronaut

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    Why? also how old are you? like I said don't worry about it, its normal and its normal to cum on yourself if you get tooooo excited without touching yourself, it happens to all guys sooner or later even to male animals getting use to their erections, orgasms and ejaculations. Your body will adjust and you will be back to normal. When you are super hard in public distract your mind and make sure your dick doesn't rub or hit on anything since you might trigger an ejaculation. Your penis will get use to the sensation and will stop being too sensitive but you must put your mind into it. Also you might cum on your self when playing around with friends " guys or girls" don't matter cuz your dick is very sensitive and your brain is in the rewire stage. So keep that in mind. It has happen to me while playing games with my friends, any contact sport, I have creamed my pants. Just wait it out, carry some wipes just in case you have to clean up your semen if you have an accident in public. However, I would see a doc just in case to make sure you don't have a medical condition causing the issue just to be on the safe side.
     
  6. bluered

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    really are u free from PE??
     
  7. It's a case of ED. Practice meditation and yoga. Calm your mind rather than your dick. It is all in the head! If you don't think about it you won't get that excited. Next time you get hard, start saying multiplication tables. distract yourself. Find a partner who is understanding and loves you more than just for your dick. Don't go for flings and hookups, as they will further demoralize you and will not help you towards recovery. You will be fine soon dont worry. Stay strong, most importantly don't overthink.
     
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  8. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    I've came before while soft and masturbating.

    If this is bothering you use it as motivation to do NoFap. No porn no masturbation. Hopefully you won't have a problem getting it up for sex after that
     
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  9. SaveTheSeedofLife

    SaveTheSeedofLife Fapstronaut

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    Not really, it happens once in a blue but not too often. I guess it will happen as long you have too much semen build up.
     
  10. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    Better than severe ED like I have. Not even the pills keep me hard.
     

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