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If anyone can help me by answering these questions I'll be grateful

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Black_Knight 1998, Jul 29, 2019.

  1. Black_Knight 1998

    Black_Knight 1998 Fapstronaut

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    Sorry my English is so poor, it's not my first language

    Hi brothers ,
    First of all thank you for your supporting me when i was in the depth of PMO cycle

    Today is the 7th day
    And I have some psychological issues cause of nofap (I can deal with that)

    BTW, the hardest problem I face is

    Porn flashbacks , actually i don't have a lot of it but it comes in certain events of day .
    Actually one time while I was doing this event I couldn't focus on the the event or flashbacks,I was focusing on fear of flashbacks

    Long time ago I could abstain for 60 day and during this 60 day I was having normal flashbacks and I was reading a book which was promoting this flashbacks ,so I stopped reading this book, and I was still having flashbacks backs for a while but then all of flashbacks go away ,it was coming only when I think about nofap and porn ...etc

    Now I have doubt in my ability to get rid of the flashbacks and therefore PMO and sometimes I think should I look for girls in bikini and gradually look less nudity pictures to get rid of the flashbacks?
    but then I tell myself how many times I did that and ended up with relapse

    So will I be able to get rid of the flashbacks ? As in the 60 day period
    I feel I can't take any decision about anything in my life,

    While I was surfing Facebook accidentally I opened the Market (which I didn't open before)
    And I saw some hot pictures I dealt with these pictures easily and after I opened some these pictures ,I get back to myself ,so I close it and begin to look for technological products to get rid of any kind of this pictures

    And after that I found my mind tell me what's wrong with you,why did you get out of there, theses pictures didn't affect on, go back until you get aroused and then close it , but I refused and told my self, I'm still in the beginning, may be after 120 days I may look when I guarantee that I will not edge,watching porn or masturbate for it, I will complete what I began.

    ,So after that my questions
    1- will flashbacks will go away after time as in the 60-day period? (The main problem)
    2-does thoughts of having look on some hot pictures will go away ? (It's not a big problem for me)
    3- Will the feeling of bad self go away?
    4- these days (3 or 4days ago till now),I'm feeling that I don't have any erection (erection=0) ,so what do you think
    Thanks for everyone,
    Sorry,cause I may not be able to reply soon
     
  2. entername

    entername Fapstronaut

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    i think you need to wait 90+ days for your body and mind to equalize
     
  3. 1-arround mid way trough it
    2-well, if you are borred and/or sexually active, no
    3-it will go away when you stop thinking about it
    4-dunno what to answer
     

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