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Foreplay and kissing during hard mode (sexual stimulation)

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by YellowPig, Jul 31, 2019.

  1. YellowPig

    YellowPig Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, a quick question here.
    Does doing foreplay and kissing with a girl (for 20 minutes give or take) during hard mode depletes sexual energy? Or does it diminishes benefits gained from hard mode? It is sexual stimulation imo, eventhough no semen came out.

    But note that a VERY LITTLE bit of precum came out (not sure 100% either if its precum or not too though, because the fluid is very watery/not sticky)

    Cheers.
     
  2. Taten

    Taten New Fapstronaut

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    I do not think the foreply will diminish energy om the contrary I think will reboot the system
     
  3. Boanerges777

    Boanerges777 Fapstronaut

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    Abstain from all sexual activities on hard mode. I think it’ll leave you feeling tempted and having sexual thoughts which is really bad for recovery. That’s my opinion.
     
  4. Amphibian

    Amphibian Fapstronaut

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    Agree with this.
     
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  5. Captain!

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    Maybe hard mode atleast 90 days
     
  6. gagate

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    Yes it does, especially if you get erections.
     
  7. pmoverit

    pmoverit Fapstronaut

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    Definitely agree. It’s hard, but true.
     
  8. YellowPig

    YellowPig Fapstronaut

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    Thanks guys for the replies.
    I am very familiar of the chaser effect. I have succeeded to get over it multiple times, including this one. Not underestimating it, but it is what it is.


    I felt withdrawal symptoms for one day though, but now I am feeling very good.

    I am actually doing hard mode, techincally (No porn, masturbation, or orgasm). I just did foreplay thats all.

    Cheers.
     
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  9. pmoverit

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    Keep it going dude. It seems like hard mode’s the only way.
    I was just thinking back how when i really started to take nofap seriously earlier this year. Thinking how of course that’s when women would try and approach you and mess with your progress.
    Guess they don’t do it intentionally, but it’s aggravating that/if the “universe” is really testing you like that.
    So therefore I can be hypocritical, but I’m trying to strictly avoid any non-platonic relationship with a girl. It sucks but I think it will pay off.
     
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  10. Drew15

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    Foreplay and kissing is a wide umbrella. I say be careful. In my experience I get very sensitive about 6-7 days into a streak. This has led to 5-6 relapses by unintentional ejaculation while making out with my girlfriend even though no clothes came off. We’ve figured out how to keep it from happening again, but look out for it as you get further into your streak.
     
  11. Cant wait the moment im single again and than I will keep it that way for years in hard mode
     
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  12. EmmyB

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    Kissing is fine, good in fact. Genital stimulation is very bad.
     

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