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Should I M? Please Read!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Louis Givenchy, Aug 8, 2019.

  1. Louis Givenchy

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    So here's the deal; I just hit my 30 days on hardmode. I have an upcoming date, and while I'm not expecting fireworks afterwards, being a cub scout taught me to always practice preparedness. With that said, should I get an M/O in at some point beforehand? Would it be understandable? I don't have urges and I truly have no desire for P. I just don't want to O in seconds after having gallons of built up semen finally reaching it's limit.

    Just give me your thoughts, comments, concerns, questions, and anything else you have to offer.
     
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  2. bigboibez

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    lol if you O in a few seconds then you can go again man. don't M.
     
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  3. Louis Givenchy

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    You are probably right. I'll just have to stay down until my face prunes before hand as a pre-emptive measure. It's a shitty situation that I've gotten myself into that I'm even asking this.
     
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  4. What would Bear Grylls do in a situation like this?
    No, my friend, do not crack one out.
    Well done on 30 days! Would love to hear your success story..
     
  5. Plus, the last time I had sex during this process, I came in about 40 seconds. We both laughed, plus I felt empty and dead later on.
     
  6. TONYP

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    I say don't M. Yes, there is a chance of O'ing too early, but you'll never really know until you try. There have been a couple of guys that I have been with (gay here) that told me that they M'd before meeting up which was their explanation for NOT getting an erection. Embarrassing right? Don't be that guy. With out getting too trigger happy, you can alternate between penetration and oral sex. It helps keep you from O'ing too quick while keeping your partner pleasured. Win-win if you ask me. Best of luck. Let us know how it goes.
     
  7. MuzzyTheArab

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    Can someone explain to me what M and O mean? I'm very new to NoFap and am trying to get all the lingo down, I think I know but don't want to assume. Thanks :)
     
  8. @MuzzyTheArab, M is masturbation and O is orgasm.
    While not technically in the glossary, I would still suggest going there if there's a term/word you don't understand that pops up here a lot.
     
  9. Plus something called Karezza sex. Going damn slow.
     
  10. Should I M?

    No.

    If you are week - yes.

    If you wanna challenge - don´t ejaculate during sex / whatever. Semen retention power!
     
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  11. phwrancesco

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    nha, save the best for last.
     
  12. Louis Givenchy

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    My dick is probably weak right now, yes. I don't WANT to M. I'm not fighting the urge to M. I'm only speaking about it as a way to ward of evil premature ejaculation spirits. I'm not going to, though. Just because my mama didn't raise no bitch.
     
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  13. Louis Givenchy

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    You all have inspired me. If I O, it's right on fucking time.
     
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  14. Sterkte

    Sterkte Fapstronaut

    You're hilarious man, love your attitude and congrats on 30 days! I was in the same boat as you, I was going on a date with a girl and knew we'd be cuddling a bunch, wasn't really expecting more tbh, but she's extremely attractive and I was low-key worried that just her body rubbing up against me incidentally would be enough to get me fired up, and I didn't want to bust a load in the event we started making out. I didn't MO, and not gonna lie it was touch and go for a few minutes.
    BUT, although we made out briefly, we made it out of the interaction with dry pants, and streak intact. Also, with a streak as long as yours, I don't think ONE MO is going to make you last that much longer, unless you did it like 10 minutes before you saw her. I think you probably end up regretting it right away.
    All the best though! It's a good problem to have haha
     
  15. zibusiso83

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    short answer..... dont do it
     
  16. grease

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    Dont M.

    Pressure on men today to last long in bed is just ridiculous. Not to mention wrong (Biologically, it may mean you are healthier and more virile if you finish fast).

    Just get a quick first round, and all the following rounds will be longer anyway. Don’t forget to get her off too (using other methods if needed), though.
     
  17. Sterkte

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  18. Louis Givenchy

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    Great night. No sex. Balls felt like they were going to rupture. Felt like I was in high school again.
     
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  19. Sterkte

    Sterkte Fapstronaut

    Let's gooo. That's awesome man, I love that feeling like being a kid again! Did you get yourself a girlfriend from it all?
     

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