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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by A_humble_monkey, Nov 10, 2017.

  1. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody,
    I am a 22 year old male from Bangladesh.I am a medical student in an old and respected medical college in my country. I am addicted to porn since I was 14.I used to masterbate five or six times a day.As a result, I lost a number of things: my self esteem, my confidence, satisfaction, positive outlook and my erection.

    I am a practicing Muslim.While its not strictly restricted to masterbate in Islam,porn is prohibited.
    I pray to my god regularly, but I feel like a hypocrite and low.

    In my medical college,I have a very tight schedule,Depression is easy to come, procrastination is my day to day companion.
    Due to porn I lose my sweet sleep-hours on a daily basis,I miss classes, I miss important lectures, I lack attention and motivation and I am a total mess.

    Recently I have been trying to reboot my brain and redeem myself in a lot of ways.But I can't maintain my nofap streak more than 2 or 3 days.
    I need strong motivations,help and support from you people.
    This is my only chance,I am counting on you,so help me out fellas.Have a good day.
     
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  2. Strong motivations, eh?

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    Watch this whenever you're feeling an urge.



    Now with that out of the way...

    Welcome to NoFap! Don't worry, you've got people to help you through this. Consider making a journal so others can track and support your progress. Build support by supporting others.

    Here's where you can make a journal: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/ages-20-24.18/

    Good luck, man.
     
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  3. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man,I really appreciate your words.
     
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  4. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man,The rebooting advices were excellent, I will try to implement them in my life.And all the best to you too.
     
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  5. ozengineer

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    I've been watching porn for 10 years and being a devout practising muslim myself and I can perfectly understand the feeling of hypocrisy you have. Don't lose hope - you feel lonely because no one in your family or friends circle know about this but you have taken this all important step of joining a community and seeking help. I've done tons of courses and programs and learnt a lot but I feel of having made little progress and this is all because I'm doing it alone. You can't do it alone...but your in the right place now. Read the threads, write comments, read success stories from people that are not bound by religion but have rebooted successfully. If they can do it, so can you...
     
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  6. vxlccm

    vxlccm Fapstronaut

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    @LiquidShoes love the Gotchu Covered pic. That's rad. Way to motivate, sir!

    @ozengineer Great that we have people of so many faith backgrounds here. Respect :emoji_handshake:

    @A_humble_monkey you can tell you're in the right place! glad you're here.
     
  7. Barry Barnstein

    Barry Barnstein Fapstronaut

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    You can get through this pal. We are all here to support you.
     
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  8. Hey man! Don't be too hard on yourself. Just forget the past and begin fresh which you have already done. We are here to support you.
     
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  9. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    Really glad to meet someone like you sir.Trying my level best to overcome this addition.Thanks for your support.
     
  10. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your kind words man
     
  11. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for you support man
     
  12. A_humble_monkey

    A_humble_monkey Fapstronaut

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    I have started a new, I hope things will change.Thanks for your support man
     
  13. vxlccm

    vxlccm Fapstronaut

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    Keep shoving down that stupid demon. You can do it. We're rooting for you. it will be such an awesome life, you working on real life issues at this stage in your 20's. No lie, not easy, but so very very worth it. Please keep trying!
     
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  14. yousuff

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    Hey,
    Are you still on this site or active? I am from your place(country) too. We might discuss about it more.
     

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