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365 DAYS - ONE YEAR OF STRUGGLE - VICTORY

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by balkanic_falcon, May 6, 2018.


  1. Wow amazing. It's stories like yours that inspire me every day to keep going. Thank you for sharing and I'm glad you were able to get past this addiction. We're all in this together. Thank you!
     
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  2. slug175

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    Thank you for sharing your story! It is extremely motivational.
     
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  3. ? ? ?

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    Congratulations . . .
     
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  4. A K S

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    Thanks bro .for motivation.
     
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  5. MrMakeItReign

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    This is very inspiring! Well done
     
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  6. SheldonCooper0101

    SheldonCooper0101 Fapstronaut

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    I have the exact same problems as you bro. And this success story is my motivation to overcome femdom porn.
     
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  7. Wonderful story. Honoured to give this post its 100th like!
     
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  8. TheKeiron

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    Bro you don’t understand how much I needed to see this post, I struggle with the same fetishes and it’s great to see that you can beat this shit.


    I’m proud of you brother I hope all is well.
     
  9. Uphillfighter22

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  10. You can do it @TheKeiron. Anyone can beat this addiction.
     
  11. Docblack

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    This story was inspiring, I’m hoping to apply the 10 positive things idea and see what happens.
     
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  12. balkanic_falcon

    balkanic_falcon Fapstronaut

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    Hello brothers! I'm back!

    Listen to me... all of you, my brothers.

    NUMBERS OF DAYS ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT.

    THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS... CLEAN IT FROM YOUR MIND.

    Look...

    I read a lot of books about THOUGHTS.

    And you know what? THOUGHTS are the strongest thing in me, in man, in all of you.

    You can beat your addiction only with THOUGHTS.

    And you know what you need to do? Think about your THOUGHTS. It seems easy. And it actually is, when you manage to control it. People can even DEFEAT THE DISEASE with THOUGHTS.

    Thoughts are clever, self-fulfilling, all-pervading energy. Look, there are theories that time don't exist, so.. If we think about something in past, we project those thoughts through the present. So, what's the point? You watched pornography before? NO, who said it? REMEMBER THAT YOU LIVE IN THIS MOMENT. And in this moment, NOW, you don't watch pornography, you read my thread about THOUGHTS.
    You got it?

    ALL OF YOU, MY BROTHERS, HAVE THAT INNER POWER.

    Another example:

    Do we have sense of time? Like we have sense of touch, smell etc. NO.

    With mastering the informations and "time" in inner self we awake self-consciousness on our path to the TRUTH.

    AND TRUTH IS WHERE?
    INFORMATIONS CREATE OUR TRUTH. INFORMATIONS CREATE REALITY.

    More examples:

    The cells are renewed constantly, so, if they do.. Why some diseases still? Because CELLS KEEP THE INFORMATIONS IN IT, via photon in them. Cells have intelligence too.

    Reality of thought is the connection of people with everything created, with "source" (our quantum field), and microcosm, then illusion is thought connection with all mental creations, organisations, things, books, pictures. With all what man created. Actually, all what man "created" lives in him till man give his own energy to it. NOT EVEN A MOMENT LONGER. Because if you stop caring about "created", means surrendering that part to the law of entropy.

    So please, please try to understand me... those "days" are ok... But the most important thing is DELETING THE INFORMATIONS.
    Because, literally, disease feeds with negative informations.

    ALL RIGHT, you might ask now, BUT HOW I CAN DO IT BY MYSELF?

    IT'S EASY.

    In your mental projection of your "addictions" give an information what press you about it and do with it whatever you want. Create a some picture of it, colors or symbols. And just DELETE IT. But the best thing is to FORGET.

    You know, when those "urges" came, you just forget it. I know it looks like "omg how, it's stronger than me", but i will tell you something.. "URGES" ARE NOT STRONGER THAN YOU. YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE "URGES" NOT EXIST. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE ME, JUST LOOK AT MY RESULT: I BEAT THE PORN BECAUSE THOSE "URGES" WERE JUST MY ILLUSIONS AND I IGNORED IT.

    I KNOW A GIRL WHO HEALED HERSELF FROM RAPE TRAUMA WITH THIS METHOD.

    Only i would not call this "a method", it's the TRUTH.

    After rape, whole her family KEEPED THE INFORMATION ABOUT IT, so she constantnly feeling the shame and soul pain, even objective conditions for it didn't existed, because SHE IS NEW, PHISICALLY UNDAMAGED AND HEALTHY PERSON.

    She got it, she ignored prejudices, informations about that it even happened... Because she knew very well... THE TRUTH WAS ONLY DEEP IN HER.

    So, all right... step by step:

    1. Identify negative information.
    2. Now don't think about orange dolphin with fluorescent stripes.
    .... Wait... how to do it when it wasn't in your mind before?
    Get rid off that scary dolphin from your head. Replace information, forget him, direct your thoughts to something else.


    You have to choose between charcoal and diamond? Why you choose diamont? Both of them are just a carbon.
    You got it?

    It's absurd, because man separate it only with color, degree of crystallization, hardness etc. So you choose it only because of your INFORMATIONS.

    Are you now understand how INFORMATIONS are strong? THEY ARE COME FROM THOUGHTS.

    I will write more about it if you want... But the main thing is:

    YOU CAN BEAT ALL IT ONLY WITH YOUR THOUGHTS, AND IT'S ONLY WHAT MATTER.

    I CAME BACK TO THIS FORUM EVEN IF I BEATED MY "ADDICTION" ONLY BECAUSE NOW I WANT TO HELP YOU TO DO THIS TOGETHER. ALL OF YOU CAN DO IT. I WAS NOT ONLINE ON THIS FORUM FEW MONTHS AND I GOT SO MANY MESSAGES WHERE PEOPLE ASKING ME FOR HELP, AND WHERE THEY CONGRATS ME, WHERE THEY SHARE THEIR THOUGHTS ABOUT OUR STRUGGLE, AND WHERE THEY SAY "THANK YOU BROTHER", BECAUSE I REALLY HELPED THEM, AND BECAUSE MY SUCCESS STORY INSPIRED THEM.

    THINK ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS, THINK ABOUT MY WORDS NEXT TIME WHEN YOU GOT "URGES" ABOUT "ADDICTION". YOU WILL GOT THAT THOSE THINGS NOT EXIST AND THAT ALL OF YOU ARE HEALTHY GUYS. I GOT IT. WE WILL WIN TOGETHER.


    BELIEVE ME.
     
  13. balkanic_falcon

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    "Our life is what our thoughts make it." - Marcus Aurelius
     
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  14. balkanic_falcon

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    I sent you PM. Please ask me whatever you want, i will try to help you.
     
  15. Zrefys

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    THANKS DUDE!
     
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  16. Mentor23144

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    Svaka čast, samo guraj. Velika podrška i ostalim ljudima sa Balkana također. Nema predaje !
     
  17. balkanic_falcon

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    Puno ti hvala, prijatelju!
     
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  18. blunt.ever

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    You have all respect from my part! I am very motivated to abstain forever,
    man. The reality is here, no isn't in my mind and other phantasies.
     
  19. creatorofmyowndestiny

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    Hey brother, I am in the same position as you were 4-5 years ago. Have a foot fetish from starting that escalated to number of sumbissive fantasies. If I attempt nofap, my anxiety and stress levels become so high that It become impossible to focus on anything. I am so confused right now. Does your anxiety levels and stress levels also become high when attempting nofap? If yes, how many days it took to recover from that position? Please help me out bro.
     
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  20. quittingthedemiurge

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    I used to be into pornography, and I made it a rule for myself never to watch gay porn because I knew that the moment I did it opened the gateway for becoming homosexual :emoji_joy:. So yeah I think deep down most people know that their thoughts and the things they do end up defining them, like most people make it a rule for them not to steel stuff when they are in a store because then that opens the door to becoming a thief. People need to have moral, principles, discipline and good guidance, and the best guidance is the one that teaches you to guide yourself. I think what you have written about thoughts might be the thing that solves my riddle for life. I used to be an atheist, and life was terribly scary for me because it was mostly meaningless and I was very afraid of death, however I learned to live with that and saw the finitude of life as a gift and not as a curse, because that means you have a finite amount of time on this Earth and you need to make it worth while. But then things happened in my quest for truth and I discovered that atheism is completely wrong and that there is life after death and our existence as souls is probably infinite. Ironically this made me depressed because the infinitude of life was so unbearable, for it meant that what I do now is meaningless. However now I think that you have cracked the code for me... We are not our experiences, our past or future, but the process of creation, change and maintenance itself. Furthermore, we can channel our energy vortex to push energy in a positive or in a negative direction, and all of that depends on our thoughts. So my new theory is that we should live our life channeling positive energy through our energy-creating vortex and expanding for us, the universe and those around us the positive energy that exists, because otherwise we will end up channeling bad negative energy, and we all know what happens when we channel negative energy; watching porn, unhappiness, stress, depression, anxiety, bitterness, nihilism, cynicism, which can eventually lead to, suicide, murder, theft, rape, prostitution, satanism, sado-masahism and basically Sodom and Gomorrah.
     
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