Sex without ur penis?

You made my brain hurt.

Is this a kind of cuckling?

 

Hmm ok are you asking if there is anything wrong with disconnecting emotionally from penis-sex and doing only oral ?

 

One word: Hitachi

 

If you suffer from ED, the reset benefit is obtained by abstaining from the dopamine circuit in non-person sex. (Pixels in a screen, cyber sex m, etc).

Sounds like you are attempting a reboot with a person. If you didn’t have ED I would say this would’ve been ok because the psychological and biological connections would be intact. But since yours are impaired via Ed, it doesn’t make sense.

A “reset “ is helpful for the mind and penis reconnections.

We build attachments by what we spend time with, what we watch, what we train on. When you orgasm you bond with that thing —it can be an inanimate object, a porn actress, shoes, or a real person.

If you are bonding intending to not activate your penis, while you are in a reboot—what do you think the cognitive pathway look like afyer 30 days?

You would be having sexual thoughts while expecting your penis to NOT function. I think you are training your impairment to continue at a certain level so I would not advise that yet.

I would expect you would regain some sensitivity for erecting your penis, however you are also training your brain to accept non-responsive penile state.

I’d be cautious.

Definitely would say you need at least a 90 day monk mode.

I understand a monk mode reset provides faster and deeper results.

Brain elasticity is amazing. You just are watering it down and asking for a miracle at the same time.

 

I see what you mean. I experienced my first flat line this year. Fucking hated it. It made me anxious like never before. I see my journal entries in that period and I am embarrassed.

Yeah.

Let me caution you slightly , the 90 day isn’t a gold standard. In fact I’d encourage you to read @Fenix Rising stuff. 34.5 weeks is my personal goal and it’s more complete. That’s a better average of actual brain revitalization and normalization. 90 days is a basic “detox” formula but there lots of sub-molecular processes that take 30+ days to do including the life cycle of sperm. Everyone is different. Review your diet. That is important. Sleep. Also important. Exercise.

Doing just no pmo and fucking everything else up is not ideal. Optimize this journey with the other elements my brother. See the difference.

 

Geez louise.

If she means somethi.g loke a possible wife AND she knows and accepts your issues what's the problem be with her however you can if it stand up or not .

If she's the one and you marry her then who cares how long the reboot takes.

If it's just a passing fancy then do whatever you want just understand that it is with a real person no doubt and the goal..it will provide so.e thep of dopamine response so the choice is yours.

Not much of one in my book if she's supporting you and wants you and your mind is in the right place. You would be a fool to let her go