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Femdom = like crystal meth

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Confiscate, Aug 29, 2019.

  1. Confiscate

    Confiscate Fapstronaut

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    The addiction to femdom once you got hooked on it is out of this world. The victim who is addicted to it doesn't even realize how bad his addiction really is. You can't even control urges anymore. It controls YOU instead.

    I've tried abstaining several times but i keep relapsing. Even after abstaining more than 90 days the slightest dose of femdom can turn into binge watching.

    It just feels so good sometimes and the girls in the videos are just incredible at it. It really feels better than sex (binge watching and edging over them).

    But I've been so fed up with it lately that i really want to quit. I was wondering if someone could help me along the way?

    I've installed pluckeye but it's really annoying that it disables all pictures and blocks websites that are safe. I need access to pictures that are related for work.

    Problem with pluckeye is that if i set the delay on and i visit a website that it need and it's blocked. I have to wait for the delay to unblock it.

    This can hinder me from doing my job properly. Can i fix this or is there something better than pluckeye?
     
  2. Darren hutto

    Darren hutto Fapstronaut

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    Yes man femdom is so addictive I just found out I mainly watch lesbians
     
  3. pak_assassin

    pak_assassin Fapstronaut

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    What exactly constitute in " Femdom " ?
    I may be addicted to it , But I am not sure what it really is .
     
  4. IbrahimViking

    IbrahimViking Fapstronaut

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    The "girls who are so good at it" are actresses who act as if they are dominant, they effectively submit to whoever is paying for their practices, by doing what men fantasize about. They are most likely not truly dominant.
    Please, make a distinction between a real dominant woman, with whom you can have a relationship, and pixels on the screen.
    You are addicted to porn and pornography substitutes. My guess is that you cannot be "addicted to femdom" because you have never once actually been in a genuine bdsm relationship. That is, the one that doesn't involve you paying money for them to dominate you.
    You are in the right place! Quit porn, rewire your brain, and then real sex with a real person, whom you really like, will feel better. It won't happen until you edge to an object, which every porn actress is trying to be. I don't mean in their life, but in their work, they are acting out a scenario, not being an actual person.
     
    Last edited: Aug 29, 2019
  5. fedmom

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    See this thread I made. www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/my-cure-for-anxiety-femdom-findom-humiliation-and-sissy-porn-addiction.244554/
    If you feel the femdom is controlling you, you have to go through the withdrawl phase. I went without 2 nights sleep and had to keep moving about. Just do whatever you have to through the withdrawl phase, it does come to an end.
     
  6. Confiscate

    Confiscate Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man that was very helpful. Saying they submit to whoever is paying them changes my perspective on them now. I've been watching their videos free through piracy websites and never spend a dime luckily for me. I was even obsessed quite a while over findom videos but never made the next step of giving in my money or buying their videos whatsoever. You have extreme cases where the girl claims your whole bank account and so on. While i never gave in to that i must say it was so arousing. I get why some men are attracted to that and gold digging practices.
     
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