I want to share the situation of masturbational abstinence in China

I am from China and 16 years old. I used to browse the Chinese forum called "Jie se Ba" of Baidu, there are millions of comrades here."Jie se" means sexual abstinence and "Ba" means forum.There is one leader here called "Flier", he is one of the victims suffering from masturbation for several years, he was nearly dying once he finished masturbation at midnight.At that time, he was even sent to emergency room of local hospital.It turned out he got neuritis which can give your hallucination of death.He said that it was the first time he felt the death was approaching.From then on he started to abstain masturbation.However, it's really hard to endure the ordeal until he started to believe in Budhism, and find some jobs, take walk everyday.Then he established the Forum.
I started to abstain masturbation since I read his articles. His article is very long, and very specific.
I also want to tell you that many chinese don't believe in religion until they have to use them to help abstaining masturbation.They don't need to totally believe it, but they need to use it. Because by reading some sacred books, your heart will feel like being purified and peaceful.The reason is that " you are reading something sacred instead of porn". In that way, you will be filled with positive energy instead of the influx of sperm.

However, the pity is that there are still tons of Chinese who believe that masturbation is totally harmless.Some porn companies, in order to make their career flourishing, started to spread some theories about harmless masturbation.They said that masturbation is a man's necessary need, and masturbation promotes metablism.But the fact is, none of the scientific researches states the theory.TOTALLY BULLSHIT.
Unfortunately, bunch of ignorant teenagers believed them and joined them to refuse Jie se Ba, they said that the community of abstinense of masturabtion is cult.They even attacked anyone who insists sexual abstinence.They are sick, they make the right thing "wrong", I can describe this phenomenon in one chinese phrase "Confound right and wrong."

 

It's my pleasure. There are hundreds of articles written by one man, they made up a series called " Nicest medicine called Abstinence", he even published a book for it. Every article is very long, about thousands of words. I will share you the very first article he published which is relatively short.
The following is the article.
I have been in the forum(Jie se ba) for a year or so, seeing countless failure, many friends every time vowed to quit, determined to great.Before long they failed, the people will be very frustrated, self-denial and depraved, even broken.Of course, there are a lot of people who just think they can't quit.
Almost all people just think of abstinence because of the physical decline, but each time they cannot get out of the cycle, the cycle seems to have a magic, always firmly control you, you like a puppet are controlled, masturbation this behavior is like an "enemy", and every time fighting against the enemy is very miserable.
And many friends after breaking the rule always attributed to the cause of no perseverance, no self-control, this is actually not a deep understanding, in my experience, only relying on willpower and perseverance to force quit is great difficult, unless this person is "Abstinence martyr, would rather die than masturbate", but this kind of martyrs exist rarely.
Given that you've failed everytime and backed up everytime, I want to show you the way to get rid of masturbation.As the saying goes: there is always a way to success, but you don't find it.When you fail over and over again, you should think about the underlying causes of your failure, rather than just skimp on the failure, carelessly attributed to their own lack of perseverance, such an understanding will fail next time, thus you can't get out of the cycle.
Here I want to popularize a very important very concept: brainwashing! I'm sure you've heard the term before, but the ones who really quit are the ones who are really brainwashed.
In fact, the word brainwashing is neutral. Brainwashing can also be interpreted as purifying the mind or transforming the mind, depending on how you understand and comprehend it.Many people have watched many adult films and even watched them for more than ten years. In fact, he is actually brainwashing himself. He brainwashes himself with lewd content and turns his brain into yellow brain.Many people look at the harmlessness theory (which indicated that masturbation is harmless, used to be popular in China ten years ago), but also to brainwash themselves, let those wrong theories occupy their own brain, thus become unable to tell right from wrong.
Through systematic brainwashing, people can completely change into another person, cowards can even become warriors, just like bomb people in Arab countries , after brainwashing, they become fearless and full of courage, even life and death can be put down, it shows how powerful brainwashing is!
We should make good use of "brainwashing" this super powerful tool, to systematically wash away those dirty heart dirt thoroughly, so that we can return to being pure.You may have questions about how and with what.In fact, you live in the world, and you are being brainwashed by the media every day, but it is unconscious brainwashing, by being instilled a certain concept, a certain value orientation.And according to psychological principles, instilling a concept over time, you will naturally accept it.This is how advertisment works. You may hate an AD at first, but over time the disgust will disappear and you will accept it.This process is a brainwashing process.
And we abstain from lust is to wash our own brains. To wash brains,we should use "abstaining from lust article". Forum Lord and friends will share good abstain-from-lust article, this is actually the content of brainwashing.You must brainwash consciously, repeat, repeat, repeat, until the content of the head is full of brainwashing.Wash up every morning, when you are free, wash during the day, wash in the evening.So brainwashed for a period of time, you will find your ideology is in some kind of changing, the one who has filthy thoughts has completely disappeared, replaced by a new you.Of course, "brainwashing consciousness" is not enough, you also need to achieve "brainwashing intensity", although many quit friends know some knowledge of color, but the lack of "brainwashing intensity".If intensity is not enough and dose is not enough, the effect will be difficult to be guaranteed.Why Lord can abstain from sex successfully, because he collects every day related articles, think about abstaining from sex forum everyday, or his brain is even full of the content of abstain from sex, the content of abstain from sex is like "firewall", separate him from masturbation.
We have all washed clothes before, in fact, the principle of brainwashing and washing clothes is the same, the brain thought dirty, you behave dirty, the brain controls hand, so don't talk about "chop off hands", the key is to see the brain thought dirty.And how to restore to clean it? By "brainwashing"!A lot of brainwashing!Repeated brainwashing!Brainwashing!The yellow brain must be thoroughly washed, just like a dirty shirt being washed white again.To wash thoroughly clean must increase intensity, wash over and over again, wash repeatedly, when intensity is achieved, the effect comes out, at that time you can easily overcome masturbation and psychosexuality, when the time comes, it is the metamorphism of complete transformation. Say goodbye to that thoroughly dirty oneself.
To someone who always fails, hope you quickly pick up "brainwash" this thought weapon, to thoroughly clean the yellow brain.Your behavior pattern also can produce change subsequently, then defeating masturbation is a piece of cake.After you have washed your mind with the article on abstinence, you should also instill the ideas you have received to other abstinence friends, which can strengthen your brainwashing effect. The more times you repeat, the more severe the effect of reinforcement will be, and then you will naturally quit.
Remember, this is a lesson from the past
(Translated from https://www.qiusuoo.com/23)

Ok, the article is over. What do you think about the article?
Though you may discover that the author's writing skill is not good, it still helped me out when I was in high school. When I was very young I got the masturbation bad habit. Then I read his article. I used his methods, to wash myself everyday by reading different article, just like you guys reading others' threads. I used to insist for half a year. However, with my age increasing, I gradually lost the interest in reading his article though his writing skill was making progress everyday.Then I failed. Then I failed again and again, even six times masturbation monthly.

You may think brainwashing is kind of extrme, but that's true, when your brain is full of filthy thoughts, you will imagine sex even when you are in class.When I am in bed, I can't even fall asleep without thinking about sex.When I take walk on the street, I can't help myself peeping the women passing by. The brainwashing means reading something positive, making yourself a strongman, pushing yourself out of the malignant cycle and feeding yourself real nutrition.

 

Yes, thanks.

 

When you try to help others out of masturbation, it's very helpful for you to stop masturbation because you are reinforcing the concept of " masturbation is bad ". When you can't help them, just let them go, you don't want them to affect yourself.
And thank you for sharing the same experience, it makes me feel that I am not alone.