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How abnormal am I?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fellowBrother, Sep 5, 2019.

  1. fellowBrother

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    Texting old girls I know for sex because I'm on a 140+ streak and horny as crap. What is an acceptable amount of horniness? I am horny like a rabbit for 2-3 days and then I have a drop off for a few days. Back and forth. Its hard to fight. Is this normal or am I still recovering?
     
  2. I am not here to judge, but it will probably sound that way.
    Yeah, it's normal to be horny as crap. But you'd still be that way if you were PMOing too.
    It seems to me you need an outlet that fills your body and soul with some happiness. Sex with someone you truly love would help, but from "old girls?" Dude. Seriously....So, besides sex with them and all the emptiness that will result two minutes after it's over, what can you do to increase your personal happiness?
     
  3. Avenging Marmoset

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    Yeah well that may be age-dependant. In fact it's almost entirely age dependant. When i was 16 my dick would get so hard just because the day ended in the letter Y that a fucking CAT couldn't scratch it. Around 25 though the male sex drive cools a bit and becomes more manageable. I got into NoFap at 47. To do this at 16 must be a burning hell that i can't imagine, so all the guys in that age area TOTALLY got my props. So how old are you?
     
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  4. fellowBrother

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  5. Avenging Marmoset

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    Ok well then you may have a year or two until the whole "instant hardon" thing subsides a bit. Socrates said something to the effect of one's youthful libido finally cooling off a bit as being akin to finally being able to dismount a wildly bucking horse. Believe me, you are not going to miss it when this happens, and yes you will still have sexual desires and get horny, but you are no longer be controlled by such urges. My man S know what he was talking about. But that doesn't help you now, does it? If you once met these girls who you are now texting, then you can go out and meet new ones, so work on that. That is not all that hard to do at your age. Personally I do not recommend recycling, since they probably have moved on to other guys, they may have moved to jother aeeas of the country, etc. and they're not just sitting there waiting for you to text them for sex, as you may be thinking. Just my advice. Keep us posted.
     

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