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Hello! I want to be free from pornography!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Jeremiah2911, Sep 7, 2019.

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  1. Jeremiah2911

    Jeremiah2911 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all!

    This is amazing stuff! I am 30 years old and I am a male married. I have been PMOing since I was 12... I always knew that it was very detrimental but it was late, I just couldn't control my mind, I became like a slave. After getting married 5 years ago I started seeing the consequences of this compulsory behavior, my sex life was damaged since the beginning and I still can't reach a fulfill sex life with my partner. I signed up 1 year ago to NoFap but I never "had" time to invest on it and be more involved. I want to change it. I know that I am still a "slave" and I really wish to be free and enjoy my wife. I can't stop looking for other women that look sexier and having fantasies... all because of PMOing. I really need your help guys... specially because I am terrible with social media :(

    Cheers!

    Jeremiah 88
     
  2. Robinthehood

    Robinthehood Fapstronaut

    Don't worry, as you leave pmo behind, I'm sure you will start seeing your wife with new eyes.

    All the best.
     
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  3. Life's Journey

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    Hi Jeremiah 88, wishing you loads of good luck quiting PMO! Keep up the good work! It's worth the effort.
     
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  4. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

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    If you wish to keep a journal of yourprogress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be atremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help youalong on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  5. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal, we could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  6. Jeremiah2911

    Jeremiah2911 Fapstronaut

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    Love it! I will follow your suggestions
     

  7. Jeremiah,

    First of all, Jeremiah 29:11 is a powerful scripture and one to live life by.

    I share some of your struggles and your goals. I want to put masturbation behind me and focus all of of my sexual energy on my wife. It has interfered with my ability to show her the love she deserves and disrupted being able to be intimate with her. All the best on your journey. Always keep your motivation in mind - it will help overcome temptations and urges.

    J.
     
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  8. Jeremiah2911

    Jeremiah2911 Fapstronaut

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    Bro! I encourage you to keep being brave in recognizing that we are weak, that is the beginning of healing
     
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