Are fetishes bad? Just a question!

Then let's break out the donkey and super-hero costumes!

 

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''Fetishes'' are colors that you add to your palette of sexual games. If you share it with your partner, if it brings you both joy, and you are both happy and satisfied to play with it, then go for it.
Why would you limit yourself to enjoy things that you like, if you have opportunity to share it with someone?

But I agree with romeolima, as long as it is not feeding an addiction.

 

I have one question regarding that. I have foot fetish, and I do like my GFs feet and I like when she has nice shoes on, but I also like her ass, boobs, belly, face, eyes or when she wears tight top, so I am not just focused on feet. IDK if I gained that fetish during being hooked up or before that, but sometimes I am turned on by her feet, sometimes by her ass, sometimes, just by seeing her being turned on too. Although I have erection problems for now and I hit 80 days mark yesterday and I never had sex, but its not just one thing that turns me on, but I would say, most of the time feet are most beautiful for me.

Does it mean, that I should avoid kissing her feet, touching them, playing with them etc and focus on vanilla stuff?

 

As long as it wont harm anyone or yourself, why would it be bad? If it can harm you or someone else, that's still okay - Just keep it under control and for god's sake don't turn it into a reality.

 

I think fetish behavior is akin to addictive behaviors that inadequately compensate for broken sexual wounds or otherwise within us, in the same we use PMO to mask and avoid our real inner issues, needing that dopamine anesthetic. Both addictions fail to ultimately satisfy. As addictions are linked, too, I believe that PMO addiction would be very difficult to recover from, if not impossible, if one is also harboring other twisted forms of sexual preferences and fetishes. Just the need and fantasy of the fetish can cause many falls into PMO.