My Rise and Fall -Money, Girls and Cars - NoFap

Hey there,

Let me start off by saying this.

Before I even knew that NoFap was a thing, I abstained from porn and masturbation at 18 years old (after doing it since 13 years old daily like 5 times a day...) and it was the first time I achieving anything substantial in life. And that's when I knew that fapping and watching porn was extremely destructive.

When I did NoFap for the first time. I went on a 30 day challenge and then met my first girlfriend and had my first real sexual experience with a woman. It was also the time I read my first book in personal development (As a Man Thinketh by James Allen) which planted the seed for my later successes in business.

Both those experiences have got me to where I am today. And it was because of the self-awareness to tackle my fapping addiction

I am 26 years old and I run two companies in my city.

One of them reached about a $ Mill in Rev in 12 months and the other I just recently started (it is my passion..helping people change their income and start online businesses)

However, The past 7 months months. I started fapping hardcore and watching porn hardcore! like 5 times a day.

I let money define me and I got fat and lonely. And once I realised that money doesn't get you girls (yes, there u have it from someone who has made lots of money in a short time, got an apartment on the beach in Dubai and had a custom edition 2017 mustang GT...all to impress chicks and it didn't work) and the only way to get girls is to be well groomed, fit and have a sharp personality. I got depressed.

And the fapping got worse and worse and worse.

But it was a wake up call. And a good one.

I started dieting, dropped 10 kgs of fat in the last 2-3 months, and taking control of meeting women. Going out and getting numbers every day. And going on many dates until finally I got laid again in a natural and enjoyable way and without paying for it (when I was making money I was such a loser that I got comfortable and just started paying for it. So this showed my that if i don't practice going out and meeting girls, sharping my social skills and staying away from bad habits like NoFap....I can actually hurt your finances big time and basically undo all my hard work)

So I am starting to go on streaks again. And actually ever since I stopped trying to discipline myself and stay away from this negative habit...my life has been miserable and eventually..the one thing which i really love, starting business and making money from them, started to suffer and I actually lost money the more i fapped.

I am now at a stage where I am rebuilding my businesses and my life by implementing new habits and trying to rewire my brain and body.

I hope this has helped people.

But more importantly.

I am writing this as a testament to myself that I have publicly put my NoFap quest out there and to kind of keep myself accountable. This is my first time writing about this publicly as well.

I love the community support here. And I truly wish that men and women can support and raise each other in other things too just like what NoFap did for us.

Peace and much love.