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The NO PM or NO PMO journey is not easy but worth the effort.
The community will support you.

 

Hello and welcome!

We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!

 

You can do it bro. She deserves it if you just married her. For her sake if you do relapse, at least do it to her and not another woman

 

Congratulations on your marriage. It is a wedding gift to her. You will be able to understand her in a more sensible manner. You yourself will become a bit more sensitive. All the best for your journey. We are all with you

 

Stay close to her and tell her everything you'll be fine. Good stuff! You go man!

 

Gradually, yes, when you establish that you won't keep secrets from each other and you feel confident. Otherwise some day she may catch you at it during a slip. Disaster time! You don't want that. You want her to help you with it when the total trust is there. Some day she may have a female problem you have to help her with tenderly. Do it right and you won't have a divorce in 15 years.

 

Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

Here is just some advice:

First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal, we could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

 

hi friend ! your wife should be supportive if she finds out . its not something that is not very common and its admirable that we want to stop , despite all the opinions .Dont be afraid to tell her as she will be the first and biggest beneficiary besides you from pmo free life. Stay strong!

 

Hello, I'm fine thank you.
It's on this pagehttps://forum.nofap.com/index.php on mobile or any other device you have to scroll way to the bottom..but on laptop or desktop you scroll a little or its just generally on the far right its called "new profile posts"

 

Never let your thoughts doubt how amazing you are. There is nothing, not one single thing wrong with you, it takes so much strength and character to be a good husband. You will beat this addiction by leading a life full of love, support + adventure. Something that you have truly earned with your strong determination. Stay strong, you make this world more wonderful

You are so loved. Regardless what you have done in your life or what you have planned for the future. You are loved. You have the ability to bring joy into this world. Every kindness, every thoughtful gesture, every smile has a ripple effect towards your wife and changes her life in a positive way. You matter. You are valued by her just for being you. Seriously! So as you go on with the rest of your day, know that you matter to her.

You are going to get through this storm. I know it feels like its been going on forever but trust me it just makes the bright ending even more worth it. You're hers always. And I think that may just be all you need. There is no other person on this planet that hugs her like you do, makes her smile the way you do or takes away the pain like you do.. She adore you .You're her everything, her safest place + in your arms will forever be her home. Keep shining Dojokyoto

You mean so so much more than you’d know! It’s a lovely thing you’re doing for her. And you should know that! Lots of love&hugs Dojokyoto