I need help

My best advice to you is don't go after it, let it come to YOU. As a muslim, I find the solutions to my daily problems in the teachings of my religion. You see, often times we chase what we want, but if we let it come to us, then it shall do just that. ONCE MORE. Often times we chase what we want, but if we let it come to us, then it shall do just that. Don't chase girls, do and create things that bring them to YOU. Don't chase money, build something that brings Money to YOU. I know it is easier said than done but if you look closely to the lives of successful people, you will notice one thing is common between all of them; they have something that other people want and which attracts other people. Stay safe my man, and I hope nothing but the very best for you.

 

Read "Atomic Habits". Especially the part about making the cue invisible. That seems to be the only thing working for me after 5 years.