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I've finally become the man I want to be. PIED success

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by ironmaing, Sep 11, 2019.

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  1. ironmaing

    ironmaing Fapstronaut

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    I'm on 88 days. Last night I met a gorgeous girl. Lots of flirting and kissing, got a semi and really aroused. But she had to go. Ended up going zombie mode into an escort I had seen a few times before starting nofap. We have a bit of a connection and she knows my PIED history. I hadn't seen her in 3 months and she remembered everything. She said how good I look and that I look way more muscly and happy :) however, I couldn't get a boner with her. Ended up MOing with her which was disappointing.

    I want to see one of the girls I could get an erection with tonight, but sucks that I've broken my erection streak (3 times yes, 1 time no). I guess its normal not to get erections everytime specially when rewiring. I also know that I can only get better with nofap and no PM.

    I see my gf in a week, I hope that I can keep rewiring to have reliable erections with her. She deserves to be fcked by a real man, and I feel I am the only one who meets that around here :)
     
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  2. ThisTime

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    Hey bro! I don't reply much to others' posts but wanted to say your story is exactly what we all want to hear! Successes like yours are felt by so many more beyond yourself. Keep up the good work - we're all rooting for you!

    I think your honesty with PIED towards other women is admirable and something that I personally think is one of the best things you can do. I've been developing this honesty with myself recently, such as telling friends and family about my story. Oh man does it feel like a weight off my shoulders.

    Much love and respect,
    ThisTime
     
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  3. SparkySub

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    I've just started today and I've gotta say, this post is really motivating! Congratulations on getting your life back man. It ain't easy, but you've helped motivate and inspire me.
     
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  4. ironmaing

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    Nothing in life is ever easy. Nofap you have a battle with your mind as it doesn’t like change. However, when you convince your mind that Porn is poison (which it absolutely is), it’ll resist less. I never relapsed into porn because the thought of it makes me sick. But the urges to MO did appear mainly when bored or stressed. PMO was my stress and boredom coping mechanism and had to replace it somehow. I chose exercise, socializing, reading, meditating, walking by the lake. After giving my brain (dopamine receptors) time to heal (60 days), I started rewiring with real women. I started that at day 80. It took several unsuccessful attempts with women I was completely open with and they were so understanding. Think 3 in total. Then suddenly with one of them, with 0 pressure to perform, we were kissing in my kitchen after a chilled walk together and she starting touching me and bam! I had a 100% boner. I didn’t even realise until she said she wanted me inside her. What was different is how cool and composed I was. Previous me would’ve stuck it in her ASAP out of fear of losing it, but taking it slow meant I kept the 0 pressure. Took about 3-4mins until we actually started having sex as we moved to bedroom, condom, chatted a bit. I was hovering between 90-100%. All through sex I was at 90-100%. Then after 15 mins, I felt ready to nut so upped the tempo. I was in control of everything. Felt reborn.

    Tonight I slept with this Swiss girl. Probably some of the best sex I’ve ever had. She was in awe. Rated it 9.5/10. She’s 33 and said it’s among the best she’s ever had. I had a moment of euphoria afterwards. I couldn’t stop smiling and feeling such strong feelings of happiness. Went for a walk afterwards and again felt like a real man.

    Nofap has changed my life for the better. It’s given me a second chance in life. I ffffff hate porn. I love life (and women) :)
     
  5. quit@porn

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    Great to here the story. I hope I will also be able to write mine story soon.

    I had problem with my girl and I could not do it at that time.
    She was also confused what was happening as a person on phone and person in reality was highly different. But she was very considering, compared to my response which was weird.
    At that time i was not knowing that there exist the term like PIED. Now I am trying to give up porn altogether.
    Reading your story game me confidence and inspiration.
    Keep posting keep writing.
    Best luck bro
     
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  6. PowerfulSRE

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    Thank you for sharing such an inspiring story. Best of luck!
     
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  7. ironmaing

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    Porn is poison. I understand it’s tough to change your routine but for me it was easier thanks to knowing that Porn was ruining my life. Literally so much suffering in my life was due to Porn. I cannot watch porn again. I’ve been given a second chance in life and I don’t intend to waste it
     
  8. quit@porn

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    Yes porn is worst there is no denial in it. The problem is that we sometimes become weak and gave up to old habits as happed with me For few days before. The main goal is the handle these situations.
     
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  9. Robin3381

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    It is nice to know all these inspiring stories! However, I have failed to quit masturbation many times and I am very afraid that I will eventually succumb to my sexual urges again. I really hope that I will be inspired enough to motivate myself to quit masturbation.
     
  10. ironmaing

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    Don’t fear your sexual urges but embrace them and find some nice girl to share them with. Treat the women with all the respect possible and make them feel like a real woman as you release your sexual urges.

    I never want to masturbate again. I want to teach my body to find sexual release with sex. Sex is just so great compared to masturbation. Two worlds apart
     
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  11. quit@porn

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    In your task of 90 days have you abstained from " P" Only or given up MO as well?
     
  12. ironmaing

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    I completely eliminated P as well as any nudity. When stumbling across revealing stuff I would look away. I wanted to give my brain a complete break.

    I didn't MO for about 45 days, which at one point I was about to explode. I could feel I was about to nut so I very gently stroked it. I got to about 90% erect in about a minute and then exploded. I was a nice release, no chaser or loss of energy.

    I then MOed with my gf a few times, tried to use her as my arousal as I rewired. Then at day 80 I started seeing other women (recommended by my gf as she didn't want to rewire with me anymore), and after 3 sexual encounters where I was open about my PIED, I suddenly, like flicking a switch, got a reliable 100% erection. Its like my brain knew exactly what to do and how to do it. It was instinct. The way I felt was undescribable. Yesterday after nutting with this girl, I felt euphoria for the first time since I lost my virginity....it was such a great experience. I've never felt this good in my entire life. I am lifting my pb at the gym easy and women are giving me compliments. Love this new life!
     
  13. superman611

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    Awesome dude! I'm on my way...but taking a slightly different route I think. I hope to be where you are someday.
     
  14. ironmaing

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    Basics are the same. No PMO for some time and rewire with a real woman.
     
  15. Robin3381

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    Thanks man for the advice! But I am single and literally have no female friends. Thats why I have no place to release my sexual urges, other than masturbation.
     
  16. superman611

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    Well, I'm rewiring with a real person but when it comes time to finish I still need to provide a helping hand...
     
  17. ironmaing

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    Well you need to get out there and socialise with women. Women are like us men, full on insecurities and looking for love and affection. It is important that you treat women with respect and if they are not interested in sexual contact that you respect their choice and try to have a normal friendship with them. You'll eventually find women interested in sharing sexual contact with you.

    What I suggest is that you do some hobby that involves women: art class, yoga, language courses, dancing class, etc. I'd start out looking for female friends just so that you feel comfortable talking to them. You can also use these dating apps to see if you can set up a date with a girl and get to know her. I've been really successful with these dating apps.
     
  18. SparkySub

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    I agree man. There's nothing wrong with sexual urges at all, even masturbation, as long as its with a girl and no porn is playing.
     
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  19. quit@porn

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    Great to here it! Thanks bro
     
  20. PeterJL

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    Good job man! And thank you for your help along the way.
     

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