Frustrated

Good day it's the first time writing my experience and I am abit reluctant but here goes nothing well I am 20 years and as the title says i am frustrated I want to get laid because I will be 21 soon and almost all my friends have had sex at my age. I am in college and the pressure is on and I find myself lying about me not being a Virgin.... And the sucky thing about lying is that you have never experienced it at all so what's the point. I don't really have a problem with getting to know girls and stuff but the problem lies when I have to get sexual with girls I don't want to come across as being a pervert or something at the same time my social awkwardness plays a huge part. I love girls but sometimes I am to afraid to get sexual with them and end up being in the friendzone. I tried ignoring this feeling of being frustrated but 1 by 1 my friends are getting laid but not me, then i start asking myself maybe there is something wrong I am doing I would like to believe that I am a good looking lad because I have never had a problem with getting girls. For example there is a girl that I have been seeing and it's been over 4 months of us going on dates and getting to know each other and I think it's time to take it to the next level so how would I break that barrier of getting sexual with her??
And I guess my worst fear is being rejected cause I have never been rejected your advice would be highly appreciated.

 

We have been on dates and meeting up for 4 months people that I go to college with tell me that she likes me but as I say I think at this point it's just fear of rejection because I was atleast aiming that she makes the first move but that's not going well so I guess I have to go for the kill and make the first move as the guy.
And to answer you question that's the problem no we haven't been physical at all and I think I am holding back and soon she will lose interest.... And at first I didn't like her but as we keep meeting up and talking yeah I like her now but not sure how she feels about me but I guess the only way to find out is to ask there is no other way and regarding the sex, with her I would love to have sex with her cause I like her but I am just frustrated that all the girls I get with this is what happens we go on dates and everything is good for +-4 months then it's either I lose interest or they do and I feel like I am not making progress and I am wasting energy that's why with this girl I want to do things differently and venture something new.

 

Thanks alot I really appreciate the feedback I will take that into consideration I will be seeing her tomrrw and I will try establish where I am at with her and open up more and talk so she will understand my point of view and I can get her point of view. Thanks I know it's not a race but I was aiming that by the end of this year I can get lose my virginity because it's the worst when your mates are talking about it and you can't relate and you have to lie it's horrible but thanks alot and I will use your advice highly appreciated

 

Just an update mission accomplished the girl I was talking about she asked me out today and I can officially say we are dating it was hectic and she even made the first move in terms of kissing and stuff so wow yeah it really happened and I am happy I guess.
The pressure is off now cause chances are I will get laid soon and besides being laid we both liked each other we were over thinking the situation well I was overthinking but thanks to nofap I was confident on the date and things were just amazing it's like all a dream honestly .... But yeah let's see I am on day 66 and aiming for day 90 so yeah thanks for the advice.