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I'm very angry and disappointed in nofap

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ash266, Sep 22, 2019.

  1. onceaking

    onceaking Fapstronaut

    Why do you apologise? Somehow I don't think you're sorry at all. Research has shown that if you have something hard to say you should just say, not say you're sorry first. It seems so fake and insincere. Most people would have probably responded the same way as OP to your 'sorry' bs!
     
  2. FreeSam

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    I do agree with you @Ash266 in some regard, that simply NoFap is not guaranteed to better your life. In fact it might make it worse in the sense that now you have to actually deal with the good/bad parts of life without our unhealthy addiction to self medicate. Which is tough for us addicts probably for a few years after we go cold turkey. I have also gone long stretches and questioned whats the point at times although resets always remind you how bad it sucks but its too late by then. The last step in the 12 steps emphasizes helping others as a crucial step in staying motivated and it seems like you have a lot to help others on what you did getting through a year.

    Congratulations on a year of recovery, maybe you could share with folks that are still struggling and how to get where you are.
     
  3. RollerCoaster

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    You are saying that you have been improving in all aspects of your life so I guess NoFap helped you and you are just focusing on the things that did not improve...
     
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  4. clapas

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    Please Ash266, stay away from PMO, maybe it's not your fault, maybe it is them girls being wrong. Our society is really fucked up and there are many victims. Look at this:
     
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  5. Ash266

    Ash266 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the kind reply I appreciate it I will look at that video best regards
     
  6. I didn’t say so outright before but the super powers semen retention stuff is bullshit.

    In spite of that I have had plenty of good results with women since starting nofap.

    What I think the “cult defenders” misspeak about is the incredible magnetism of achievement.

    Do girls want to talk with a guy who is achieving ? Kicking ass? Knocking it out of the park?

    Or the guy stuck in his cycle of shit over and over?

    Yeah. So if your only achievement is not beating your meat, it’s not attractive. If you couple it with what any serious Fapstronaut does, exercise, sleep, healthy routine, self control and acceptance plus introspection and journaling you will be amazed at how that WORKS.

    That’s a confident mother fucker. He knows himself and is accepting and tells the truth. No bullshitting kind of guy.

    That’s attractive. For guys and girls.

    Make a goal. Achieve it.

    Push yourself.

    I can’t tell you how many girls or guys when I own my struggle for sobriety it draws them to me. What I do with that can be for good or bad.

    But nofap is just a reset button man. You have been incredibly short-sighted perhaps —- but that happens to young guys . Just fix your telescope. You can build on top of your sobriety.
     
  7. DGZ

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    Maybe you need to adjust your attitude towards women. Do you have an incel view toward women?

    Don't subscribe to MGTOW or incel mentalities, they are extremely toxic and will drag you down to the point of no return.
     
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  8. Ash266

    Ash266 Fapstronaut

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    I'm aware of mgtow but dont know much about incels I'm avoiding anything toxic about women on the internet dont wonna read stuff that make me more angry
     
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  9. "NoFap is a scam" - @Ash266

    That's the best quote out there guys haha :p:p
     
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  10. DGZ

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    OK that's very good man. Are you going out there and talking to girls? How many girls have you talked to in the past 6 months? You don't have to answer that, just something to think about.
     
  11. onceaking

    onceaking Fapstronaut

    It is not my research, it is a study published in Frontiers in Psychology which can be read here. I would never make up a study to support an argument.
     
    Last edited: Sep 22, 2019
  12. Ok I think this tit tat was amusing but seriously.....

    Do you talk like this in real life or just online?

    (Bold effect added for kicks).
     
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  13. ClickClickBoom

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    Expect nothing, accept everything
     
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  14. onceaking

    onceaking Fapstronaut

    It's like he's shouting at everyone in this thread.
     
  15. Jonny1992

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    I kinda envy you, a whole year nofap, i didn’t even reach double digit.
     
  16. onceaking

    onceaking Fapstronaut

  17. Dear Bold Dude —

    Why do you assume anyone who questions you is against you?

    Why are you being so hostile to a guy expression frustration?

    Is name calling the only way you know how to handle adversity?

    Are you able to handle questions?

    I asked you to explain the purpose of your tit for tat. You respond with another tat.

    Headslap.
     
  18. Jonny1992

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    Ahhhhh. Thx Sun. A true Sayajin helps another one out.

    Do a Kengidama on him, and the whole thing is finished!
     
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  19. an0n8200

    an0n8200 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys can I join the bold gang
     
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  20. clapas

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    It takes one to know one.
     

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