This Is Going to Be Harder Than I Thought

Be patient with yourself, especially during a first streak. It's all about learning how to control your urges and spending the free time you get, being more productive.

 

"The word fetish derives from the French fétiche, which comes from the Portuguese feitiço ("spell"), which in turn derives from the Latin facticius (“artificial”) and facere ("to make"). A fetish is an object believed to have supernatural powers, or in particular, a man-made object that has power over others. Essentially, fetishism is the attribution of inherent value or powers to an object." - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism

Fetishes are fake, it's basically magic/spell. The attribution of fake power to some object which that object does not have. Pictures/porn in general are "fake", it's a bunch of pixels that we convince ourselves are "real", we unconsciously trick our brain into thinking it's real to arouse ourselves. Fetishes (and porn in general) are based on fake contexts, on fake stereotypes, on fake pretending, on irrational illusions.

Be aware of this and know it deep down within you that it's all acting, pretending, it's not the real thing. Real sex is to procreate, to have children with a real decent person who you love and are attracted to, it's intimate and private, not something anyone decent/rational would want to share with others and something other healthy people don't want to know about. All this garbage produced by our oversexualised culture is a bunch of fake illusion, pretending, acting, trying to fix psychological/social complexes, deal with frustrations in a completely wrong, destructive and pathethic way. It's all instant gratification drugs and "being under a spell". Never forget that it's all a bunch of lies and drugs.

From people who invent and produce porn/fetishes/promote nudity to people who consume all this, everyone will end up sad, unfulfilled and auto-destructive because they're not focusing on long term calmness and happines, but on fake short term auto-destructive hedonism, materialism and other things which qucikly pass away and leave us empty. And what else could short term drug based on illusion and destructivness leave a person but emptiness.

People are trapped in this delusional "world" they created and they need to be freed from it. Long live this freedom, reality and being alive. With God's help my friend.