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females are starting to call me bro... blah

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Khufu, Sep 22, 2019.

  1. Sep 22, 2019 #1
    Khufu

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    why thou
    they can just call me by my name, why go call me bro, so before nofap, i talked and acted very sexual, got way too close to female co workers, they didnt seem to mind but i know if i got to close to the wrong ones i could of got into serious trouble, with my severe pmo addiction i had i couldnt help it, i just blurted out sexual things, an got so close, but after streaks of nofap, it started getting less and less, i eventually stopped flirting ,thou i was so good at it, dont get me wrong i find females highly attractive and enjoy regular conversations with them, just normal conversations is thrilling to me, but i find they are starting to call me bro, cool story bro, bro bro bro, it annoys me cause they tells me they are not interested in me no more, it bothers me alot after i have conversations with the ladies im attracted to ,they replay "cool story bro" then walk off an talk to other guys , it tells me they have pmo addiction and need they sexual stimulation with convos , if they dont feel it they think something is wrong, or wrong with you, of course they arent aware of pmo addiction, all im saying is this new life is still getting use to an theres things im not yet use to yet, is there females out there that well be interested in me ever again, cause i find females arousing 24/7 ,
     
    Khufu, Sep 22, 2019
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  2. Sep 22, 2019 #2
    The Consigliere

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    Just ask them to call you by your name. If they're not going to show that amount of respect to you, move on.
     
    The Consigliere, Sep 22, 2019
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  3. Sep 22, 2019 #3
    Khufu

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    good thinking
     
    Khufu, Sep 22, 2019
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  4. Sep 25, 2019 #4
    Infrasapiens

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    I do not know anything about women but I think they won't show interest if you aren't a bit flirtatious first. Take this with a ton of salt as I am a 22 year old virgin.
     
    Infrasapiens, Sep 25, 2019
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  5. Sep 25, 2019 #5
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    Call them sis and have a nice day! :)
     
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  6. Sep 25, 2019 #6
    Jonny1992

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    Call them sis. Nice story sis
     
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  7. Sep 28, 2019 #7
    Fallacious D

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    Call them "ma'am". Then grab some popcorn and enjoy the show!
     
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  8. Oct 3, 2019 #8
    lolo dairy

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    She got another man cause it is the way of the girls. If you don't caught up one girl at the moment, she inmmideatly take a trip with another man. it's normal so be paitient and keep waiting when she come black to you.
     
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  9. Oct 3, 2019 #9
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    This is the women at your work calling you bro, or women all over the place? How many women are we talking about exactly?

    My guess is that during these interactions you are acting in a way that is making this person(s) uncomfortable and that the "bro" is a subtle criticism of your behaviour.
     
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  10. Oct 3, 2019 #10
    Khufu

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    im referring to female co workers as those are the only females i interact with, i act in no manner that would make someone uncomfortable, i figured they call me bro because i dont flirt with them or date them or hang out with them outside of work,
     
    Khufu, Oct 3, 2019
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  11. Oct 3, 2019 #11
    Get_It

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    Next time one of those women do that just politely reply "I am not your brother" and tell them how you would prefer to be addressed.
     
    Get_It, Oct 3, 2019
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  12. Oct 3, 2019 #12
    lirider

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    There was a girl at work who would call every guy "dude". I weirdly hooked up with her (one of the few) but was hanging out with one of her friends and I said she needs to stop calling guys dude. Her friend totally agreed. It actually says more about them than it does about you or us. Turn off... Don't even care, work only, no pedestaling women. They love that shit.
     
    lirider, Oct 3, 2019
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