Having sex with your coworker

I'd say go for it, but why not a relationship?

 

Dude do you have to rate her appearence?

I wouldn't do it. If it ends bad, you will keep seeing each other at work, unless you are mature enough to get along despite not being in a relationship.

 

Make sure she is 18. Get consent that she wants to have sex. Explain up front that you think she's a 6.5 and have no interest in a relationship but just want to smash. Then, good luck.

 

Oh and use protection. You might be a virgin but she may not be.

 

If you want to want to objectify women less (which as a part of this forum I hope you do) then stop rating them 1-10. It's friggin' demeaning and reduces a woman's value to your perception of her looks.

 

I think you need to look at the bigger picture here, pal. It's not just about what you want, it's also about on what she wants. You want no strings attached sex, however, she may not want that. If she wants sex, it will (more than likely to) be in a relationship.

 

I second that too. Women are people too and shouldn't be judged on looks and/or how they are under the sheets.

 

Bro, she's a human being, not a fucking sex toy. And if you approach it that way then you will most likely, and deservedly, get shut the fuck down.

Not to be an asshole, but posts like this is what makes me annoyed about certain aspects of the portrayal of NoFap and these "superpowers" that one gains that suddenly makes them a player; or the expectation of becoming a sexual conqueror. You're still letting how pornography portray women affect your perception of what women are and how they should be treated. Pornography is fantasy, not reality. Even if this post gets deleted, it needs to be said and I'll gladly accept whatever discipline is given to me for saying it. If you have that mindset of women just being there for sex, you're

 

You know that you are wrong when Milhouse becomes the voice of reason.

 

Company policies usually prohibit sexual relationships with coworkers; even if off the worksite/office.

You also open yourself to a sexual harassment compliant if you or her she change your mind and one of you wants an actual relationship and she complains to the boss.

Not a good idea.

 

I would err on the side of caution and not do it, especially if you have a good job. It’s too much of a risk in today’s world. If you’re just looking for hook ups, there are plenty of alternatives out there besides the workplace....however that kinda defeats the purpose of NoFap.

It appears the OP made this post a couple weeks ago. I’d like to see what he did.

 

seeing your a virgin you have no idea about sex, hitting it an quting it isnt as easy as mainstream makes it, discconecting aafter sex or relationships are very devastating

 

LOL, the Pimping Pastor.

 

But breh, you smash Christian girls that you're not married to, isn't that demeaning and reduces their value? You have no moral high ground here, we're all sinners. Just sayin.

 

No I don't.

 

That's because there will be a conflict of interest

 

Getting sexually involved in coworkers can very much backfire. It's not worth the risk, as she can get hurt, and you can get hurt.

 

Easily ask her out before you guys hook up. Hook up's are a bit risky even at the work place. I had a friend that got together with a girl at my job two years ago. I remember after they had sex rumors were flying around after she told everyone she worked with she had sex with him. People began to find her annoying I guess because that's all she talked about and that she took his virginity. I remember him bragging about it to. Just from my experience in the work field..

If you guys have sex and get together try and keep it out of the work place. Have a talk before you guys go back. Before you know it things can turn ugly, especially if she tells people about your P**** size or etc. Get to know her for a while, but I'm not saying no to her, take her on man.

Never know until you ask. If you don't ask you will not receive.

 

Not to mention a much bigger risk of sexual harassment complaints when you ask her to have sex and she says no. Even if she thought you were cute and she flirted with you, that sudden escalation could likely result in her filing a complaint about you. Situations like this are literally what started the whole #MeToo movement. There's nothing wrong with asking a coworker on a date. But asking a coworker straight up for casual sex is generally considered harassment and for good reason.