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I don't like anyone.

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Infrasapiens, Oct 5, 2019.

  1. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Is this normal? When I was a kid I remember falling for every girl that wasn't mean to me. Now I don't feel anything. It is very frustrating, I can only be angry or sad and pretend the rest of the stuff.

    Help?
     
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  2. Get_It

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    Are you the Grinch? Wow.
     
  3. Fullyawake

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    I know what you mean. I like very few people as well.
     
  4. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    Do you like yourself?
     
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  5. When you say you don't like anyone, are you talking about not liking any women as potential romantic partners or you don't like anyone in general? If it's the former, that's probably nothing to worry about. You just haven't come in contact with anyone who piques your interest. I am currently in this position. If it's the latter, that's most likely a problem if you don't like anyone at all...friends, family, coworkers, etc.

    Then like the above poster says, do you like yourself? If you don't, work on that first and then everything else will start working itself out.
     
  6. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    No.

    Well I can like people, I love my family, but not counting them, I sometimes wonder if I really like the friends I have or I just don't hate them. I know it is messed up because they have been good friends, but I don't know.
     
  7. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    It's really not about your friends then - you need to like yourself first to then see clearer friends and others more clearly. And, ultimately, no friend can be everything to you, be always there, or fulfill all your needs. You must allow friends and others to have their own limitations, their own neediness, their own baggage and dislike for themselves, whatever. Where there is no love, put love, and thereby draw out love. The effort must begin with us.
     
  8. Infrasapiens

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  10. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to Springfield.
     

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