How to approach a girl I like? Any advice??

You already have her number? Go ahead and add on instagram there's no reason to worry about that. Also, if she sat next to you when there were plenty of other, or more convenient, seats then that's a good sign. We humans typically don't sit right by people we don't at least mind being around. How good of a friend is she to your ex and did the break-up leave things relatively amicable or did things end badly?

As for actually talking to her, keep it simple, ask if she wants to study for the class together over a cup of coffee sometime, or ask her to catch you up on what the class went over if you miss class one day. You already have something in common with her, y'all are in the same class. Use that as the ice breaker and then let the conversation branch out, such as asking her about how her day has been or what other classes she's taking.

 

If the break-up has been a reasonable amount of time, i.e. a month or longer, I say don't worry about the whole ex situation. Personally I feel like it should be the responsibility of the friend to talk to the ex if y'all start dating. I had a pretty good friend of mine talk to me about how he and my ex were into each other and asked if that was going to ruin our friendship, I told him I was happy for him and to do whatever that makes him happy (me and her also ended things on good terms); they're married now and I was a groomsmen lol!

Edit: Note how he didn't ask me if it was okay if they dated, only if it would make things bad between us. Don't ever let someone else stand in the way of your happiness.

 

Well to be fair, she wanted a serious relationship and I was/am terrified of emotional intimacy ( I'm working on this) so we ended things when we/she realized I wasn't going to change my stance on the issue.

Did she accept your follow request or is that what you are waiting for? If your profile is public I wouldn't worry too much, she might just wait a bit before following you, or just like one of your new posts and then follow you.

If you're talking about her accepting your follow request, be patient, she might not get on that much or just want to build a little excitement and make you wait. Patience is an important tool in life.

 

Just do it. What's the worst that can happen? She will just say no. It's not like she's gonna whip out a glock and clap you.

 

Epic lol.... best response ever. Please post on every thread where guys are asking for advice on approaching girls...

 

That’s the thing. We fear a negative response and screwing up a chance. We like the fantasy of keeping the dream alive, so we delay.

 

I despise social media so I only ask girls out in person. Grow some balls and start a conversation. Don't miss another opportunity!

Plus she's a WOMAN. Getting asked out by guys is part of their job description! There is no blame on you for trying.