Be cautious for tinder

Hey Dragydof!

Yeah it's honestly pretty much replacing one vice with another. The act of masturbation in itself isn't horrible. For most, it's masturbating to pornography and escalating beyond that. Getting physiological issues because of their addiction.

You, on on the other hand are in the same boat as most with an addiction. Only now you're addicted to Tinder. The thought of different women and sexualizing them gave you an immense rush and you're seeking more and more. I've been there too.

I deleted all my apps like Tinder and I barely touch social media now. Even if I do, it's just to chat with people. Any boredom gives me time to work on my hobbies and other things.

You have to start now before this consumes you my friend! We're all here for you

 

You know, surprisingly, I had the same issue. I couldn’t really relax my girl muscles & had to try other methods to start doing so. But focusing more time on that meant less time focusing on other things...long story short, you’re quite young as well, I think it’ll be beneficial for the both of us to focus back on our work or other areas of our lives again

I think doing that will improve this area in our life slightly. You’ve come really far & it’s inspiring that you’re doing this. Congrats on nearly a year!!!

 

Hey man just letting you know I've been in the same place. This past week I started up tinder one more time again because I forgot to switch off my auto subscription, so $10 was going out for a while. I realized Tinder is poison as well.. Unfortunately I would swipe until I got a turn on. Bikini photo's, etc. I know they are probably doing it to get guy's they want or anything to attract men, not to mention fake profiles on there. I got a like recently that had a really cute woman, seemed normal right? Then I saw the email that turned me off as it said demo*u**.com.

I signed up for tinder just like you in just trying to communicate more. But it's difficult when they don't ever respond back especially when they sent you a like first. Tinder is dangerous as well..

 

I think you gotta be a Chad or Stacey to get laid from Tinder.

 

6-8 hours of playing the same instrument every single day? That's too much!

 

If you want to see some serious changes delete all the dating apps and start doing cold approaches.

 

Honestly to hell with tinder up satans ass where it belongs. Good decision.

 

Yeah and buy and read BANG by rooshv. THIS IS HOW TO DO IT. IRL. FACE 2 FACE.

 

Exactly... We must not stop progressing in terms of self development. The second worst thing you can do to your reboot is to stall in one place.

 

That book gets a lot of hate.

 

Does tinder work now... Still girls are there?? I thought mostly there are guys with girls profile.. hahahahaha..

Had too much of tinder..
Uninstalled 2 years back..
And never thought of installing again.

Go to some socializing groups.. like trekking group.. some music class.. some gym class.. or may be a cycling group.. where you meet a lot of unknown people..
Practice your skill there..
You'll learn faster and better there

 

Go through all the girls in your area... then it's a self-solving problem. But if you're in a huge place like New York, I suppose it could take a while to get to that point.