crazy sex urges

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by mav, Apr 21, 2015.

  1. mav

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    Since week 5 and 6 ,I have had crazy sexual desires .Not doing any pmo or into nude pics.It started by going to date sites, now I am on craigslist looking for casual encounters (sex arrangement not prostitutes).I believe I am good looking guy and also fit because I workout 3-4 times a week.I haven't yet had sex but I feel i can have sex with women am not attracted to which I wouldn't do normally.This is probably affecting my recovery.Any guys going through same thing?Any suggestions too?
     
  2. mav

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    @boot1 sorry men that wont make me relapse you wasting your time.
     
  3. mav

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    @boot1 haaha.. naw dawg. u r a foool...nothing
     
  4. mav

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    does any one know how to delete this fool
     
  5. mike47

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    Go to your Personal Page, click on People to Ignore, and enter Boot1. It doesn't get rid of the posts but at least you won't have to look at them.
     
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  6. mook

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    For me craigslist, dating sites, apps etc all lead to relapsing.
     
  7. mike47

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    Looks like "Boot" got the boot. Don't see his name in the directory anymore
     
  8. riis11

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    I agree with mook. In my mind, craigslist and dating sites are substitutes and I consider them a relapse or they will eventually lead to a PMO relapse. I speak from experience. I have used both craigslist and dating sites and "hooked up" many times ... so to speak. I was almost mugged from a connection on craiglist. I had to literally punch the shit out of a guy who appeared out of no where after being lured into a house by a woman. What do you tell your girlfriend or wife when you come home with a swollen eye and 3 inch gash on the left side of your scalp? Well, you lie.

    Even if you disregard the threat of physical harm, the liaisons are meaning less and empty. The ladies aren't what they advertise. If you expect porn type ladies, forget that fantasy. The best that I ever saw was an average looking lady. If the ladies are serious and it leads to a hook up, remember you're not the only guy that she's doing this with and likely not even the only one that day. Every single lady (not joking) that I met from CL and dating sites wanted and expected unprotected sex. That is crazy and will lead to disease. What do you tell your girlfriend or wife when she finds out that she has contracted chlamydia? Well, you lie.

    The use of CL and dating sites is just another way for you brain to trick you into getting the dopamine fix because its new, weird and exciting. Also, it turn you into a pathological liar.

    In the end, all that I can say is that it is not worth it. It doesn't lead to anything. It could kill you or get you killed. It is just not worth it. Just stop the PMO. Stop the substitutes. Stop the meaningless sexual encounters. I've walked down that path of destruction and it leads to a lonely, empty, depressing place. You're better than that. You deserve more. Be a man and be strong. Don't be a sneaky lying sex addict looking for the next weird kinky liaison. I can tell you from experience that if you cut out all that nonsense and devote your time to other more productive activities that you'll have a much more satisfying and fulfilling life. Stay Strong.
     
    Last edited: Apr 22, 2015
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