Last post on this forum. Leaving.

I'm sorry to read this

If you have any desire to share with someone who will try their best to support you there are a bunch of people who have experienced similar things who are a message away. Myself included. May you be happy and free from suffering, young brother

 

There are people who deserve to be stepped on in all the ways possible. I am not saying you are one of those, I don't know who you are, but I just wanted to say that not everyone deserves help or attention.

You left so it doesn't really matters.

 

I see, you were mistreated. But ypu know what I see as well. A chance... You are just one year younger than I am. I won against depression but nobody here will be perfect. Between those lines you wrote, I see a strong will to fight. No matter what comes out.

 

It took me 3 years to win. But I promise you there is a way. It will feel like hell but what does it matter you know how it feels like to suffer from pain everyday. The only way out from hell is by going through it. As long as you breath, you are alive, even if it doesn't feel like it. As long as it hurts, you are resisting. Something inside keeps fighting even if you think you gave up. It's Hope.

 

I'm very sorry you were mistreated. I don't think I've run into you before here, but I hope you give us another chance. But you're right Depression does suck, I can totally empathize with you

 

You're so right... People don't but not just on this site. I had a fight with with two members because they didn't understand depression. I really don't you think you get over depression and if you got over it I would suggest you weren't really depressed in the first place. To be fair I didn't understand depression and would say I was depressed but that changed when I JS Park's book on the subject. It made me realise I had never been depressed, just a bit sad.

 

Yeah depression is the worst but you shouldn't really leave because of it. We're a community in the first place and we are here for the same reason (more or less), which is quitting porn, masturbation, right? So why bother about some members that couldn't care less even about themselves ? No one is "perfect". Not even the non-PMO addicts. I wouldn't take it as that but i'd choose to keep going no matter what.

 

I understand why you feel the way you do but you have to understand that other people are not responsible for your condition. The fact that you're depressed or that person A was unfair towards you doesn't give you a mandate to lash out at person B.

I had a similar issue when a flatmate was rude to me. I told him that I won't accept such behavior and his defense was "I said that because I went through some bad shit". My reply was "Is it my fault that you went through some bad shit?"

It's really simple. Everybody has problems. But don't expect to get along with people if you speak to them as if they were the source of your problems when they're not.

 

Iron will . I believe you.