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Women trying to seduce me.. If i say to her "can you please stop and cut it out im not Interested"

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by auzzy_mikey, Oct 10, 2019.

  1. auzzy_mikey

    auzzy_mikey Fapstronaut

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    If i say to a woman upfront who's trying to seduce me... "can you not make me feel uncomfortable? I'm really not interested and can you please cut it out?" Is that rude?

    I'm a lawyer and in meetings in close proximity if a client who is a woman is trying to seduce me, can i say words to that effect and call out the elephant in the room?" can you not make me feel uncomfortable? I'm really not interested and can you please cut it out?" Is that rude?"
     
  2. I don't know where you are admitted to practice, but in the US, Rule 1.8(j) of the Model Rules of Professional Conduct states that "a lawyer shall not have sexual relations with a client unless a consensual sexual relationship existed between them when the client-lawyer relationship commenced".

    So it would be an ethical violation for you to have a relationship with her.

    You can bring the topic in an upfront but diplomatic way, like saying that you appreciate her as a client, but that you already are in a relationship and you are not interested and if she can please keep her relationship with you strictly professional.

    If she keeps doing it after that, you should be up front with her as you suggested. It's borderline harrasment from what you're saying. If that still doesn't make it, report it to your partner if you are not a solo practicionner. You should work with your colleagues to get you out of that case and put someone else on that case.
     
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  3. Mistersofty

    Mistersofty Fapstronaut

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    Sounds like they're trying to seduce their way into your bank account. Generally any women that are trying to seduce you are bad news. Don't be afraid to be firm.
     
  4. auzzy_mikey

    auzzy_mikey Fapstronaut

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    Yes mate it did backfire on me. I said to a woman that you are making me feel uncomfortable and I can no longer talk to you and she complained to my boss.
     
  5. Get_It

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    Dude, you're a Lawyer who's supposed to be smarter than your average person yet you're asking a bunch of non-Lawyers on an addiction site for advice. Something's not adding up here.
     
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