What is it to be a man? Self-Reflection to a post...

I recently came across a NoFap brother who questioned his masculinity and what it meant to be a man. I commented on it, and this is what something that helps me attempt to answer my role as a man.

"There is no wrong or right way to be a man. It seems to be that you're comparing
yourself to men that you may want/glorify to be like. There is struggle behind the faces of every man. You already are a man and by nature you already possess the qualities of one brother. The problem is not external, but I believe it's internal. I have personally encountered this and what helps me is silence. Straight silence, and I let life just happen and whatever happens I let it happen. A man who really is trying to be a better man would use this website (as you are). A man would actually post to the website (as you are), and a man would try to better himself (as you are). Brother, I think your greatest battle is with time and with silence. The qualities you seek are there and are prevalent simply through a post. Let silence be your guidance because that usually lets the process of life happen."

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