259th Day! My last post here...

A damn weird story. But the message is true none the less. It's you and only you.

 

You said it Naikolai. I guess it's pretty cool you could have your friends in the same room having sex and not be effected. Though I imagine that that's something I wouldn't want to put my through. Not because I would get turned on, but just because its kinda icky to be in the same room with people having sex.

 

Your wife is okay with you watching porn with a female friend then watching her have sex? Uh alright weird story, good message. Lol

 

Congrats man, but your wife being okay with you hanging out with those freaks is just bad news waiting to happen, anyway good luck

 

I really don't like this post at all. Why would you share a story like that here when people may be struggling? I am having urges all the time and worry about relapse. I don't appreciate reading about people having sex and watching porn while you stay "strong and unaffected". Good for you, but I don't need those images in my mind.

 

Well I didn`t find it weird.Thanks for sharing your success is inspiring.

 

This wasnt weird at all.
Bro! Like you are my role-model! You remained unaffected while two people had sex near you?! WOAAH.
Thats where i wanna be man!
Thank you!
Im inspired as hell.
And you're absolutely right.

 

This post came at a time when my mind has become very sexually active. Are these like temptations are these like tricks of the mind to bring us away from the happiness and control we have? Do we have to be tested?

 

you gotta make a troll out of it and post in on 9gag

 

As someone here put it perfectly, OP's method is for people finishing their cycle of reboot. Not for us who are just beginning or are in the middle. It is a very advanced level. Dont try it now or you will relapse and feel guilty. If your mind still has sexual cravings, you obviously still have a lot more to go.
Plus, everyone is different.
I personally think OP's a freaking hero. I love his amazing state of mind and i respect it a lot. I hope i can reach that level someday.
But see, what worked for him might not work for you.
At present, dont give up. Dont relapse. You wont, if you believe in yourself. Check out OP's previous post if you want. Its pretty cool.

So dont PMO. Dont give into the sexual feelings. It is only a trick of the mind. Realise that you are NOT the mind. Dont identify with it.
Just observe it silently, without judging. And you will see it for what it really is.

Stay strong.
Seeker19

 

This is class. Thank you so much. It is straight from the heart and so clear. Thank you.

 

You're welcome, brother.
But I am only an instrument in the hands of the Lord.
Take care

 

So this is what I am looking to uncover by being free of pmo:

1. Being more confident.
2. Having more energy.
3. Finding the love within.

Finding the love within is what you say about 'realise that you are NOT the mind'. This cannot be done while taking part in pmo cause the mind is just obsessed about women.

Now as for what is being discussed in this thread is that ultimately no outer experience can influence the stability of the mind. A whole massive fantasy took over my mind for the last few days and I had to leave it go. This was a test but it wasn't really intentional it was just part of my rebooting.

For me thought it is one step at a time 79 days pmo free today.

 

Exactly! The love within cannot be realized along with PMO.

Literally, practise directing your mental gaze at the center of your chest. There is a mystic centre there. The heart lotus.
There springs the fountain of Love.
There lies the "treasures in your heart which thieves cannot steal".
There lies the Truth of your identity.

 

Exactly! You are not your mind.If you change the rules on what controls you,you will change the rules on what you can control.

 

I am changing the rules today. Will let you know how I get on. There are no VIP thoughts, stories, emotions, scenarios. That bastard the biggest villain in the world will be destroyed.

 

Hey. I apologize for speculating on trolling. It's not my place to judge or speculate on things I have no idea about. What the hell do I know. This is a safe forum and my post was not especially productive.

 

happy you have such a cool sex life.

 

This post was somewhat triggering.

However, sex is everywhere.

When I was in Gamblers Anonymous they had some good advice. "Do not go in or around casinos." and also "Do not associate with other gamblers."

If you apply this to sex then you might want to avoid hanging out with your friend in these situations. If you must see them make sure it's in a public setting.