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Year and month in benefits

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Kligor, Oct 14, 2019.

  1. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    I started nofap 13 months ago,they are many streaks,my best was 190 days without pmo.I will separate things to positive and negative.

    -Positive
    1.My eyes are brighter,my eyes look like i m happy man.
    2.I can make eye contact,before nofap it was very hard for me to look people in the eyes,i was avoiding eye contact.
    3.I'm not tired anymore,full of energy,i can sleep even 3 hours at night and then go to job and not feeling tired or weak.
    4.People love me now,i work at store,people will always give me smile and be respectful(Of course only when i treat them nice).
    5.I m better family man and friend now,i don't have kids,but i know my mother is proud with me.
    6.I'm better person,almost all the money i earn on job i give to my family and house,and i m happy with that ,that is my decision(My reason of this is:What is more important to you,that you drink beer at bar or to bring bread to the house)
    7.I don't hate that i m alive anymore,before i started nofap i was like,"I don't wanna die But I ain't keen on living either".
    8.I have more free time even that i'm going at work everyday(Free day after every 14 days)i work privately,and i don't feel sorry about that i have little free time.
    9.I m more spiritual now,i started to believe in god.I didn't talk with anybody about this or anybody said to me you have to/it's better for you to believe,no it just goes by myself,like something in head told me believe in god,you have nothing to worry and be better man.
    10.My beard seems to be thicker,nothing special really but it's thicker,growing faster,i have to shave to every two days.And hair on the head looks healthier.
    11.My skin looking good(better than when i was everyday pmo).And my body was always feeling hot,especially arms,legs and every part of body expect hand and fingers).
    12.I become almost immune to cold,i get cold just two times between last 13 months and now.
    13.Now i'm so positive person,they are rare cases i got angry,before nofap i was having rage problem(Now to but i m in control now i don't let that happens for no reason and at small things).
    14.I like music more now,somehow i enjoy more than before when listening.
    15.I just want live normal life and be happy,and wish everyone what they deserve.Before nofap i was very angry person,jealous and depressed,now i'm not.
    16.I enjoy to talk with girl,i don't have a girlfriend and i was never have girlfriend(Honestly i don't want).When i look them in in the eyes and her voice i was in heaven(Before nofap i avoided girl i was ashamed,even today i don't know why,they are beautiful human beings).
    -Benefits are almost unlimited,who knows maybe not.I just put major benefits i have faced for this 13 motnhs.

    -Negative
    1.I don't want to insult anyone in my real life so i just shut,that happens almost everyday,and i put rage in myself and that make feel weak mentally.Only when things are so clear then i speak,i don't pick fight and squabble i avoided that.Maybe is that problem i don't want negative energy and i just run away?(If someone have advice i would be glad to read it,thank in advance).
    2.I m more confident in myself how times go but,i can say i was way more confident in myself when i was pmo(I don't say go and pmo,its just true,fap and porn is worst thing ever).Maybe i lacking in confidence now because i overthink to much?Maybe i'm my own worst enemy?It's all about brain.

    If someone read this thank you for patience,this was long post.All best people.
     
  2. Powerous

    Powerous Fapstronaut

    Keep it up bro.
    Try meditating and letting go of pointless thoughts. Focus on the present moment. Do what feels right and don't be ashamed of what you do.
    Let go of overthinking, because overthinking gets you nowhere.
     
  3. Jimmylin

    Jimmylin Fapstronaut

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    Thank your sharing.
    These stories give me a lot motivation.
     
  4. Ajar

    Ajar Fapstronaut
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    Its interesting, when I was on my past streaks I know exactly what you mean about listening to music, not feeling cold, the less anger, crazy amounts of energy, for me also food became so satisfying to me. Very interesting how two different people with no relation to each other experience the same things. There has to be something to these benefits
     
  5. aymane29

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    Because you became more pure, Your real self don't want to enter in non meaning or stupid conflicts, all prophets peace be Upon them was like that, the problem is your mind is struggling that...

    The solution: You need to see what do you want very clear: do you want total peace ?, take out a gun and shot the man? maybe you just need to talk to explain peacefully your point of views, and show the miss understanding for the client.

    you should perceive very clearly yourself how want to behave

    You are in the right path keep up
     
  6. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    You are right man,i don't want conflicts,all is in my head probably,last 6 days i give everything of myself to not overthink and to not care what everyone other thinks(Doing things normally as always,just don't think anything) and i can tell you i feel better,i hope if continue like this i will make habit to normally behave like that.I push myself even if i need to high my voice and have to get in conflict i do(If i m right of course)i can't take that anymore,wish you all best.
     
    Last edited: Oct 18, 2019
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  7. aymane29

    aymane29 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, Just behave the way you see and you feel, just be yourself, God Bless
     
  8. control your life

    control your life Distinguished Fapstronaut

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