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Fetishising race

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Oct 18, 2019.

  1. Hi guys and girls. I now have a 50 day streak behind me and have no inclination to watch porn at all. My problem/well maybe not a problem, let’s see what you all think, is that during my 15 years of porn abuse I only ever wanted to look at Indian and black girls. This is true in real life as well. Do you people think that this is porn induced or just part of my make up? I’m white by the way! Does anyone else have this issue?
     
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  2. Personally im not drawn to any particular race. Im white and married to white. But when i watched porn i watched all women. I actually prefered IR porn but usually black guy / white girl. But IRL i really dont have a preferrence. I think if youve been into black / indian girls for that long it may just be a preference and not porn induced. Me for example prefer BBW women. But ive generally always felt this way and i know its not porn induced. So to me BBWs are just a preference. So I think your race thing is probably just a preference. For example I know a lot of women that date exclusively outside their race. Its a more and more common thing and I dont see any issue with it.
     
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  4. Thanks for your reply lol wut. I just want to make clear that I don’t actually find this to be a problem either. My wording was terrible in my original post. What I’m interested in is weather people would view me as fetishising women of a certain race and weather people thought this was brought on by pornography. Obviously interacial couples have been going from strength to strength in the last decade or so maybe this is linked to pornography also. Again guys not judging just genuinely interested.
     
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  5. Its hard for me to conclude the origins of peoples race preferences. I think the main reason for more interracial couples is just do to better race relations in modern society and decreased racial tensions as the older more race biased generations are dieing out. So me personally, would view your and everyone else IR relationships as non-porn induced and just a preference. Again, porn may have a percentage in the rise of IR relationships but I think it would be minimal at best.
     
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  7. Marr708 thanks for your input and I hope your recovery is going well.My first big crush was a black girl, I was in junior school at the time.I remember we were both very fond of each other. In my teens and early twenties I dated only white women, whilst still having an interest in darker women. I suppose this maybe because the circles I moved in were predominantly white. Then the porn started and I watched exclusively darker skinned ladies. Now I only find these ladies sexually attractive in real life. I don’t even consider light skinned women sexually attractive. I do still find them beautiful just not in a lustful way. I was just pondering weather it was my first crush or porn that has shaped me the way I am.
     
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  8. Would you if you had a chance, be involved in a very serious deep relationship with a black or indian woman ?
     
  9. Xander- most definitely mate
     
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  10. mattyjsy

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    Nobody sees an issue with it so it seems, perhaps they will when kids are learning about how there used to be white people in history class
     
  11. My dude, the way i see it, its more likely a preference. Nothing wrong with liking women of darker skin, if you do not glorify them in a weird sexual way. If you're willing to have a real relationship with those women, kudos to you nothing wrong with that.

    Also, if you really want to know the answer ...quit porn and see if it stays with you.
     
  12. Your right man. I feel no shame in it. The common effect of fetishes seem to be an element of shame, or so I’ve been led to believe from reading countless stories on this site. I probably shouldn’t even have brought this up in the “problematic sexual behaviour” section. I have not looked at P for over 5 months and not Md in 51 days, but I still have tunnel vision when it comes to my taste in women.
     
  13. So, If several generations from now, humans are all the same color due to interracial reproduction, is that an issue? I dont see it as such. Interested in your take on that.
     
  14. mattyjsy

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    I believe so, each race bring it's own culture, if you mix all cultures together you end up with a diluted culture. I just think it's a shame, I've been travelling for the last 4 years and visiting different countries to experience the culture is one of very few real joys in life, future generations wont have the same privilege that I've had to experience new things because eventually all countries and continents will be the same race and culture, and the world will be a much less interesting place
     
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  15. WildPig13

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    Wonder why most mainstream porn is like that nowadays and not viceversa (white guys banging ebony women), while just about each and every single one of the so-called "sissies" happen to be white guys? Are they forcing races to blend by demasculinizating whites, perhaps? Or maybe only certain races, as you don't see anywhere a latino dating an asian girl or a black guy with a thai/philipina...
     
  16. As most people said, i think its just a preference thing, its common a d i think most people have some preference or other. I wouldnt worry about it man
     
  17. It's none of my business, but have you considered starting the NoFap counter? 50 days is no small feat, at least for me, and I like to see the number of days other members have been without P and/or M and/or O.

    Just sayin...
     
  18. Tingpm222- hi mate. I haven’t set a counter up yet because I’ve only just joined the community, but if it helps you newbies out I will defiantly. I couldn’t have done this without inspiration from other members on this board. One thing I can say to you is, if you keep at it you will get there, everyone on here with long counters thought they were the ones that could never do it and look at them now. I’ve noticed that as time goes by my perspective changes and I become more and more like the me I remember when I wasn’t addicted and that is the best feeling in the world. Good luck, never stop fighting and stay vigilant.
     
  19. SREENII

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    hi..i'm an indian.I think you like girls looking like deepika padukone , priyanka chopra , manushi chillar etc..indian girls are very smart and charming..you many wonder to hear the fact that india has won the most number of 'miss world' titles in the world (6 times)..indians generally have an affinity towards light skinned people..so defenitely you will get an indian woman as life partner.
     
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  20. vocalfry

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    So there's no problem erasing entire peoples, history and such from the planet?
    Rootless, whose natures are entirely dictated by state, rather than heritage. Or in serious danger of it.
     

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