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Embarrassed of my preference

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by SparkySub, Oct 16, 2019.

  1. SparkySub

    SparkySub Fapstronaut

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    I'm gonna own up to this. I'm 16 and like my girls chubby. I admit I've been ashamed of this for a while. I'm no good with girls, but if I ever dated one I hate telling anyone and would be embarrassed of what my parents would think, and maybe friends. I overthink things a lot and feel like MO is not helpful with this negative thinking. Any way to maybe change this bad mindset?
     
  2. Why are you attracted to chubby girls?
    Do you like their bodyfat or another quality they have. Like usually bigger chests.
    Try to figure out what exactly it is that attracts you.
    Nothing to be ashamed about dude. you are 16 and your hormones are raging, your tastes will change over time and hopefully porn will not pervert them.
     
  3. SparkySub

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    I have always liked chubby girls and porn has never come into it that much. I just like how soft they are and usually they are much cuter and have sweeter personalities. I'm always shy to admit I like something.
     
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  4. I understand.
    Are you shy?
    Some shy guys are attracted to girls that are more shy than themselves, thats completely normal.

    Your tastes are in no way deviant. But of course your classmates would ridicule you for it, as guys your age tend to lack self confidence and thus try to make fun of others to feel better about themselves. I do not think your good friends and family would laugh at you for that though. Well anyway there is nothing wrong with liking chubby girls at all. Just make sure you really understand why you do like it.
     
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  5. SparkySub

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    Thanks for the advice. I have been shy in the past. I admit I was ridiculed everyday in school for more or less 5 years (About everything), so as my confidence increased when I left I suppose I had a few underlying confidence issues and its pretty much just girls now.
     
  6. Theres absoultely nothing wrong with liking bigger women. Anyone that tells you such is an idiot. I also prefer chubby/bbw, so much so that I married one. Personally im not shy and i do not have any confidence issues. Ive dated women of all different shapes and sizes, but im always drawn to the chubs. No one has ever given me a hard time about it. And there are a lot of guys out there that prefer chubby girls. So its not a rarity. Just a lot of people are scared to admit it. Date who you want, and dont worry about what others think. As long as youre dating a good hearted person with the personality and morals that go along with yours, then the looks dont matter anyway.
    I encourage you to date women that make you happy. Personally, I love chubby women, and I dont think you will be dissapointed if you go the same route .
     
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  7. Ineedthisbazz

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    Mt advice if you shy
    Start some martial arts traning
    Grepling,kikbox,box,mma
     
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  8. HeartCenter

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    Different people are attracted to different people and no shame in that. Seriously. Overthinking is not great. If you can get off that and start doing more doing, less thinking, and more HEALTHY doing, that's the best, but all a process. One decision at a time my friend.
     
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  9. Infrasapiens

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    Dude, chubby girls are the best. They are so adorable when they smile. I'm a 22 year old angry dude and I've liked chubby girls since I was your age, there is nothing wrong with it.
     
  10. OP, count me in aswell to be one of those guys who like chubby girls.
    Nothing better than a cute chubby girl who is confident :)
     
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  11. Infrasapiens

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    There is nothing like making a chubby girl feel confident. The rewards are worth it.
     
  12. SparkySub

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    Thanks for the comments fellas. Overthinking is a bad mindset and I've luckily been able to stop doing that as much thanks to NoFap and some self improvement.
     
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