I can't get hard enough to fxxx my girl...

Hi sexy people of NoFap,

I'm seeing this girl since 2 months like 2 times a week and my dick doesn't get hard enough for penetrating her. The foreplay is amazing, but when it's time to put in my dick, it gets soft. She sucked it already a couple of times and I also came from it. But it just doesn't get hard enough for penetrating. She still enjoys the sex and me too. I fingered and licked her everytime until she came. And we did a couple of rounds until we were completely done. Its awesome! Just the fact that I can't f\*\*\* her is annoying me and I think it will frustrate her aswell if it happens too often. I gotta admit that I didn't have Sex in like 5 years (I'm 27 now) and I was watching porn like crazy. I quit porn completey 2 weeks after meeting the girl. What can I do to get rock solid hard? Should I quit fapping aswell? I'm sleeping well, don't have a lot of stress and Im lifting weights 3 times a week.

Thank you for your help in advance!

 

Thank you so much for your reply! Would you recommend me to also quit fapping aswell? I will cum anyways at least once a week, because we still see each other frequently.

 

Thank you so much guys! I've met her yesterday again and same shit happened. Pretty hard when kissing with clothes on. Hard like 70% when receiving blowjob and like 20% only when trying to fxxx...
I will quit this shit for good now. Watched last porn like 20 days ago and I will keep going. I will keep you up2date and I really hope that you guys are right. Thank you once again!!!!

 

I have noticed, that the erection is stronger or weaker depending on the position. In missionary position it is completely soft. When she is lying there in doggy position it gets harder, but still not hard enough to penetrate. When it is completely soft, I close my eyes and try to focus on my breathe. I catch myself racing through porn scenes in my mind, that I remember which I found extremly hot and I try to think of certain porn actress. I can even easily name my top 10, which is kinda sad. I have the strongest erection when I'm sitting and she is playing with my balls, while kissing me, or when I'm standing and she is sucking my d while sitting on my bed or couch. I have also noticed, when I am alone and rubbing my d, I can get it to the same erection level, as if I get head from her. But also alone without any porn images, I can't get to a very hard erection. Sorry, I hope the sexually explicit words are OK in here.