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Libodo GONE after reaching goal

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Rambo98, Oct 22, 2019.

  1. Rambo98

    Rambo98 Fapstronaut

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    Oke guys I really dont get it anymore,

    Because of a really bad addiction with escalations, two years ago I decided to start doing nofap on hard mode. After a lot of failures I finally succeeded. I was off porn and mastrubation for about 200 days. That was about 4 months ago. My life changed positively, HOCD faded, I have insane confidence and im working out every day which makes me look way better then before. But there is one thing I really hate, my libodo is totally gone. I am only 21 years old but I am nothing compared to the 13 year old me when it comes to girls. Sure I kiss a girl sometimes but thats it, my hunger for sex is gone. When I was younger I was horney all the time. Now I dont even have sexual thoughts anymore or random boners. There are days I dont even have one boner, even not in the morning.

    I really need to know if there are some of you who had anything like this. I really want to chase girls again but my brain or dick wont let me do that.
    Maybe its because of my PE I want to get rid of. My PE is caused by spasms of the pc muscle, and im trying to stop the spasms because i rarely get normal boners anymore.
    BTW I mastrubate for one time a week.

    Sorry for the long post and my bad english!
     
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  2. NF10419

    NF10419 Fapstronaut

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    I haven't been PMO free for as long as you have so I don’t have any firsthand experience but maybe masturbating every week, even though it’s only one time each week, is causing your low libido. I’m sure you would much rather be with an actual woman and as that desire builds up you constantly release it by masturbating. Maybe hold off for a few weeks and see if your libido changes at all?

    Also there is the chance you are developing an actual organic medical problem that’s the root of your ED. I’ve heard that the presence of morning wood is a rule out in determining whether ED is organic or not. Maybe get checked out by a physician and have some lab work done. Good luck brother.
     
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  3. Flatline maybe? I dont believe in the nonsense saying that ”on day 21 this will happen” and ”on day 47 youll feel this going on blablabla”
    I think, that we are all different and we all react different to the withdrawal.

    It might aswell be that you brain is pulling a trick on you to lure you back into P.
    Give it more time.
     
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  4. Sounds like flatline maybe...go pursue some real sex with a woman.

    My dick is totally dead these last few days but I can get it going for sex with my wife.
     
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  5. alexg1709

    alexg1709 Fapstronaut

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    Get some black maca powder 5 mg daily with breakfast.

    That stuff works really well.

    Give it minimum six weeks
     
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  6. dr_persistent

    dr_persistent Fapstronaut

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    I have had experiences like yours, I was so determined to Nofap that I didn't even used smartphone or pc except for word and excel, college purposes generally. So after long period of time I was scared because after 150+ days your porn addiction fades and this images in your head also fade away and the problem is that you don't even now are you in the flatline or you just lost your libido, and only 2 things which are left are you and your dead penis. But believe me, he isn't dead. You must find him a new purpose, you trained your brain that you don't need porn or masturbation for 200 days. He is trained that you don't need ejaculation or anything. If you understand what I am trying to say. Now you trained him that you are masturbating once a week, and why would he (your brain) need a woman? It's about training. You have to train your brain to have a contact with a real partner, it is rewiring. It is crucial, there are big possibilities that in the beginning you are going to face ED but don't be afraid, it's normal and after you succeed to have sex, just continue to have it, and this is going to teach your head that this is now only way to get some dopamine, to cum, ejaculate... And that is the only way how to get back your lost libido.
     
  7. Don’t worry, if you get with a girl you like and take it slow, the turtle will come out of his shell lolol
     
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