Met Escort I wasn't attracted to and still went through

Come on man, do you really want to become a lifelong "John", a lifelong whoremonger? I mean I seen some pretty unattractive doofus manlets manage to get with decent looking women.

 

Excellent!

 

Most women care more about CASH then about looks.

@SaturnsSun this statement is a fact. Go ahead and google it. That Facebook dork Zuckerberg would never get a date if he wasnt loaded.

I dont understand these morality based arguments. I want to get laid so would prefer dating a promiscuous skank over some "Church Girl" that i cant even get a pop kiss from after 10 dates.

Also I like Cuck pr0n so if I found out she had banged some other guy the night before I would think it was hot. I used to be such a jelous guy last time when I was in a long term relationship and worried the gf was going to cheat on me. But now I refocused my "viewpoint" so that if she cheats than GOOD. The truth is most guys never even find out their gf is cheating on them unless she does it many. many times.

The gf goes out to a nightclub on "girls night out" with her female friends. And if some guy asks her to dance she says yes and if he kisses her on the mouth she never tells the boyfriend about it back home. Most men are so naive.

Expecting that a gf/wife wont cheat is same as thinking your dog wont eat a piece of chicken given to it by a stranger.

 

No, that’s not a fact. I’m a woman. I’ve been around women all my life and all of my friends are women. Not one of them ever talks like this. None are looking for men with money. None are trophy wives or trying to become one.

Some work on Wall St. Some have masters degrees. Some teach at universities. One is a successful actor. Some are artists and musicians. One is a CEO who just got back from a sabbatical in India. She paid for the trip with money that she earned. She’s single and takes care of her elderly mother. She’s never married. I’ve never ever heard her say the word “marriage” not once.

That’s a warped and twisted view of women. There are so many different types of women on this planet. With different talents, gifts and strengths. The dummies look for sugar daddies. But their are plenty of smart, hard working, well educated women.

I live alone in my own place. I pay all of my own bills. I haven’t dated in 10 years and I don’t have any desire to.

I’m not the least bit interested in what kind of weird porn you’re into.

 

I did not expect to see females on NoFap's forum and certainly not with a lion avatar. So you are doing your best to give of the impression that you are a male.

And your information is inaccurate. All I see in my city is women dating significantly older men > 20 years older and its not for their "kind heart" so get real.

Dont respond to me anymore. i dont like that there are women on this forum at all, because men now will be ashamed to share openly or to be vulnerable if we know there are women here listening and reading the posts we make.

I thought this forum was a place of men where men could speak openly without having "Holier than Thou" women make snarky comments. Women with a sex drive that is 5% of what men experience.

 

I don’t know your age/demográphics but it’s incredibly rude of you to assume only males need nofap ...

Saturn is obviously not a young female and personally I think her voice and opinion is just as valid— despite it not being what you presume. Might I suggest a little more humility in seeking for sobriety?

This is a place for healing. Sometimes that requires a contrarian opinion. When Truth, becomes your enemy, you should expect to become ensnared.

 

I can say that staying off pm (can't say pmo cause I had sex with my gf) definitely helps with the escort issue.

I used to sit and browse the latest girls and shemalep visiting my country almost daily looking for the right one to visit.

I am now on day 45 and it's not even crossing my mind.

Good luck and keep strong

 

You obviously have no idea what women want.... or anything about women for that matter. Every statement youve made is comical.

 

Did you bang another hooker you weren't attracted to?

 

Way to face yourself man.
hang in there.

journal your feelings ...not your habits. Share your ideas on what is your need. I strongly suggest journaling. Many young guys just report their acts. That gets old quick and doesn’t dig deep.

write your ideas.

ok you watched porn.

but how did you feel when it happened ? What were you going through?

 

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1). Nofap has a section where you are supposed to journal. Not here.

2). You have been writing in the open forum —- you can start your journal in the rebooting section. Then attach your journal thread link to your signature. It’s the next step for you. I found it was the best way for me to see my cycle, prevent me from perpetually denying my problems and escaping them through sex by repressing my feelings.

If you don’t do a journal how will you see what is causing your cycle?

 

Yep. Go to forums. Reboot journals. And Click appropriate age group. Start new thread. Title it your journal. Then link to it.