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60+ days: Reminding myself why

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by ThisTime, Oct 12, 2019.

  1. ThisTime

    ThisTime Fapstronaut

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    I am a university student and I have never had sex, and not by choice lol.

    I stopped PMO because I want to learn what real sex is like. I stopped PMO because I want to discover what romance is. I stopped PMO because I want to be fully invested with the lucky girl I choose to lose my virginity to. I stopped PMO because, holy shit, will having sex be incredible and that much more intimate. I stopped PMO for love, because porn isn't love.

    I think love is the strongest force on this Earth. Stronger than gravity and Coulomb's Law and centrifugal motion and the strength of white water rapids trying to knock you off your raft even though you're holding onto the side rope for dear life. It breaks the predictability of human nature. Love counteracts individualistic tendencies of society yet is inherently about the individual. Love is like this unlocked magic that nobody else in this world has but you. And oh man, do I love love.

    I'm not gonna lie, some days are difficult. Some days I question why I am still doing this. But looking behind me at the steps I've climbed, thinking about how unhappy I was when I was watching porn, I get a burst of energy. I am proud of the discipline I am gaining and strength to get to this point. I am motivated by the support and love of this community. I am doing this for myself, because I am enough, I feel love coursing through my veins, and I am loved.

    I am rooting for you. I believe in you. Sincerely. I love you.

    You can do this :)

    - ThisTime
     
  2. Well said! Thank you for your time!!
     
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  3. MrWes73

    MrWes73 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for that! I really hope you find the type of love that you're seeking! All the best!
     
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  4. PowerfulSRE

    PowerfulSRE Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations and good luck!
     
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  5. TheFlash123

    TheFlash123 Fapstronaut

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    Great post !! Thanks for motivating.
     
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  6. omerico2121

    omerico2121 Fapstronaut

    Wow! Your words give a lot of motivation! But remember that love comes in many forms, and before you want to dive into romantic love you might want to learn about the simpler kind of love - loving your family and close friends, and most importantly, loving yourself. That's at least how I see it and how it works for me. Wish you the best!
     
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  7. congratulations
     
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  8. Bobske

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    great post, great going. Love you too.

    p.s. I hope you find love and making love with a special someone is uncomparable to just sex or PMO.
     
  9. You_ll_succed_for_sure

    You_ll_succed_for_sure Fapstronaut

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    Well, sir, I will see you here with your 280 days no PMO.

    I'm waiting this message for you.
     
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  10. towards_sobriety

    towards_sobriety Fapstronaut

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    Love is in the Veins.
     
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  11. Alpha_Virile

    Alpha_Virile New Fapstronaut

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    To be honest this thread has inspired me
     
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  12. Alpha_Virile

    Alpha_Virile New Fapstronaut

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    I respect what you said #TRUE
     
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  13. Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Saving energy by staying at n celibate is a good thing. I was worried about being virgin too for 27 years. But after getting a chance and didn't use it I was okay with being a virgin cause understood that nothing wrong with me.

    I see where you coming from. But let me tell you that love don't have to change you me with sex every time. One is listing for flesh, other thing is loving persons heart even if sexual things is not on the table.
    You can lie še your virginity for girl you are comfortable comfortable with and like a lot(love if you will if dating for 2 months you call love) . Or you can save yourself for that special one who you want to marry and live rest of your life with. No matter what society says or does its not right just because everyone does it. - just like pmonor sex. Yes sex too cause its the main reason that hurts hearts and damages people. So man, while you on your streak you should think about it and research which road you want to go - short easy one that's leads to few dates and sex. Or long and hard one that leads to marriage(not to marriage to have sex but to marriage to spend rest of the life together) and only then sex, but most likely to living happy ever after.

    While you a virgin you can choose what to do with it. But once you lose it then you can't get it back. So choose carefully. Most important guard your heart.
    If you want I can tell you my story in this regard, so PM me if you want to know what I learned.
     
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  14. Keep climbing!

    This is motivating to read and porn is unnatural in my opinion. Stay strong and I'm also sending you positive vibes!
     
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