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New low. Problem not getting better..

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Oct 22, 2019.

  1. Doing a post this morning before any edging. Had a new low as I watched gay P*** the other day. I edged on which I know isn't good, but afternoons are kind of a weak point for me right now..

    It was a g**gb*ng video. I got curious and got harder with it then looking at Woman which is troubling me. I'm not feeling gay... I have a girlfriend online again as she confessed over the last week to me which I'm very thankful for. We got together a long time ago but I broke things apart because I had to work on things. I'm tired of this way that I got to. All I know is my problem is still surfacing.


    Looking to talk to anyone. Either my willpower is low at the moment right now or I'm just letting it attack me..
     
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  2. You_ll_succed_for_sure

    You_ll_succed_for_sure Fapstronaut

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    Hey dude, please do something to start PMO.

    Or this thing can eat you up untill it will be late.
     
  3. Yea you got to kick the PMO habit man. I also got into bisexual, gay, transgendered person, cuck porn amd all that. If you keep on itll just get worse and worse. Stop while you can
     
  4. YoungPiccolo

    YoungPiccolo Fapstronaut

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    You must perservere, you must. Have the willpower to change and eliminate PMO once and for all or you will suffer, trust me. I ended up doing the same thing you did not too long ago and it has fucked me up real bad. But just like you, I'm trying to combat it. You got this man. We're all in this together.
     
  5. Enwar

    Enwar Fapstronaut

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    You should consider getting rid of your phone for a long period of time, in the range of several weeks to a month. It's hard, but that might be your only way.
     
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  6. mark_peter

    mark_peter Fapstronaut

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    You definitely need to do something.
    Look out for serious help and get some because it can only get worse.
     
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  7. I'll do what I can to change this.. Thank you everyone for your words of wisdom.
     
  8. Has135

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  9. Has135

    Has135 Fapstronaut

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    The reason why you edge is not because you want to, but you don't know why it happens. What I mean you know deeply that its stupid and a waste of time. The best thing to do is remember when you think of guys or girls, remember they are dirty and filthy and smell bad. Keep that thought everytime you think about them. It is a total turn off for many, and me. Another thing is as soon as you know your fiddling to being careless and wanting to edge, for a quick second change your thought, think of something to do or walk or do 10 push ups, or run around or start talking to a family member about anything to change your mind or a friend. It all comes down to distraction and keeping yourself busy non stop, you do this at the beginning stages of NoFap but once you have regained seld control and self dominance. You will easily command yourself and make quick smart judgements on what to do and what not to do. This is why like after 7 days of nofap its much easier to self control yourself compared to day 1. Discipline takes time, and it takes actions like what I mentioned replacing thoughts, doing pushups, distracting yourself, even punching yourself not hard just to change focus.
     
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  10. Themadfapper

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    ^ Some good ideas. That can help break the fantasy. Best to have your mind on other things, and you have to stop edging. I don't know where this idea of it's ok as long as you don't' cum comes from I've been there myself, lol. You might not feel as down after if you don't cum [ and better not to, as long as you stop and don't edge] but edging is horrible and can lead to ridiculously long fapping sessions which are really harmful to your mental state and health. It really feeds the addiction and you get bored real fast as well.
     
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