Girl on bus

hey man..go and talk to her..don't worry..make friendship with her..but don't introduce yourself in a crowdy bus..in a busy crowded bus everyone must be in a negative mood..find her outside bus and start making company

 

I think if you get off the bus and follow her that will come off as creepy, especially if you don't normally get off at that stop. Has she given you any indication that she wants to talk to you? Smiles? Eye contact? Sitting near you? Try that first. If things seem positive, say hello.

I think you have bigger problem though in that you don't know how to talk go girls, pick up on social cues, flirt, small talk, etc. Is this true? If so you really need to work on that. Number one priority - get clean from porn (you probably shouldn't be trying to date right now if your dealing with an addiction FYI). Practice talking to girls, all the time, every girl you have the chance too, flirt, small talk, whatever, just go for it until it becomes comfortable. Treat them like normal human beings - that's what they are.

 

"Do this, don't do that, on the bus no off the bus but her stop is creepy" blah blah blah.

Ultimately, this guy understands the environment better than anyone that isn't in his situation. It's up to his judgment to see what works best.

Good luck homie, girls are the coolest lmao.

 

I would also suggest using my 100% foolproof line.

Start off your introduction with "Hey, I just wanna let you know I don't want anything from you but ______" where the "____" is your opener such as "I think you're very pretty" or "I see you often and think your coat is mega cool" or whatever. As I said, ultimately you're the one who knows the atmosphere the best and it's up to you to judge what the most comfortable course of action is.

That's another thing, if the atmosphere is non-threatening or not scary then she'll surely respond well.

 

Despite all the poopoo heads who say it's creepy to get off her stop if it's in the middle of the city that's cool. That way you can do something else cool in the city like go shopping or whatevs and that in itself will provide good conversation.

 

Try not to rehearse your lines too much. Be part of the atmosphere and let her do most of the talking, she'll dig you being a good listener.

 

My mum says I'm cool.

 

Once you get to that point where you're comfortable just walking up to girls and talking to them (I think I'm 90% there), it feels so great and rewarding. Even if you don't get any numbers, just having that confidence is a huge plus. Women used to come up to me out of frustration because I was too shy to ever even look at them, let alone approach them. But now I feel like "What's the harm? We're only human. Men approach women, and the women get to choose whether to accept or reject, nothing to cry over."

 

Duuuude.. .you're making this all to hard... in two words. BE HONEST!!!

Walk up to her and say these exact magical words guaranteed by the great lover Ima Hunk,

"Hi, I'm a bit nervous, but I see you on the bus all the time and I've always wanted to meet you. My name is --------" When she responds, just let the conversation go where may. Let us all know what happens.

: ) HF

 

@Fullyawake what happened bro??
I waiting to here to hear, how you talked with her?

 

Don't worry about going to go and do it. Say what you said in your sentence above, possibly follow that up with a joke or something funny in mind to say to her. If she doesn't respond don't take it hard.. She's living her own life or has someone already.
Woman I know who are instantly taken don't respond to other guys or have less intention to acknowledge you. I've learned this in the work field over time. It sucks but you eventually get the picture and know who the single ladies are.

 

Hey there fullyawake,

How did it go mate?

Let me drop my advice here..

What i noticed is that you want to fully commit to this. Invite her to lunch?! No man thats bambhoozal. Its a crowded bus sir. You want to declare your love there in an overt way?

You will get crushed by your inexperience. You are attached to the outcome mate. You fantasize approaching. Approaching or gtting in conversation with someone will start on a bad vibe if you do that.

Try it, dont believe me. We all have to get that wierdness out. Make peace with that.. something funny to say? Forget it if its planned...you will fake smile and she + the others around will cringe.

Even amazing people ( like she might be) will display a defined behavior based on what comes to them.
And you plan on going in like a mountain of seriousness.


Ok now...so all this beating with no solution? I have one also. Get close to her, bumb into her..say sorry with expectation of response
See what she does and take her hand if she s standing and its discreet. Tell her : i ve seen you before. Then fukingg wait. She will say something and you can continue from there.

Cant bump into her playfully? Cant have fun because of the general fear we all have "" what will others think"? Then tell her : "you are the love of my life"

You dont crave the girl mate...you crave liberation from social conditioning. Your naame tells it. May the grace of the devine assist you in this noble quest.